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*Name- Kayla

*Location- Florida

*Age- 16

*Grade - 11th

*Status- single and lovin it :-)

*looks- Blonde Hair Blue Eyes Skinny 5'6ish...

*hobbies- love dancing, chillen w/ my friends, shopping, giving advice, getting dressed up, meetin new people, and i love swimming...

*email - xosexybabygirl@hotmail.com

*Drink - not all the time but sometimes

*Smoke - ive tryed it but it aint my style

*Drugs - nahh...


advice

i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

if your in love then you wont let anything stop you including what other people say!! i say go for it...

Kay

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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!!

you want my onest opinion...be yourself, dont try to be something your not! answer the questions she asks you onestly dont lie to her, because if she would happen to find out she isnt gonna like that! but be politet! good luck..rate me

xoxo Kay

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I'm a pretty good student, usually do all my homework and don't cheat or anything. Most of the time, people are always asking to copy my homework and since I'm nice and want to make friends, I let them. I can't say I don't have it when its out on my desk and anyone can see it. I always get scared the teacher is going to see I'm letting someone copy and I'll get in trouble! What should I say next time it happens? I don't want to come off as mean or anything, but I'm sick of working for my grades when someone can just copy and get it easy!

tell them that you will be happy to help them but you arent just going to let them copy..you work hard for your grades.. dont let people just take advantage of you like that stand up for yourself..yea they might think well she is mean for not letting me see her homework but would you rather get caught cheating? i know i wouldnt bc at my school we get suspended for cheating.. no matter what! i would just offer your help and if that isnt good enough then screw them!! dont let people just copy your paper because then they have it soo easy they can just sleep and screw around during class then when it comes time for homework they will just start depending on you to let them see it and everytime you let them see you paper you are takin the chance of getting caught, hope that helped hun! good luck

rate me :-)


much love Kay

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Hey Kayla I'm AShley and I'm 12 years old and 1 of my frinz hav been taking laxactives and i wuz juss wunderin wht they/it will do 2 ur body???

email me bac at: FlipFlopchick135@aol.com

well they could really hurt you if you take them alot..is there a reason she is takin them? because one of my friends was belimic and they put her in the hospital so she had to eat well she got ahold of a box of lazactives and she took them so she wouldnt gain ne weight and she almost died (i mean she came really close)...you need to talk to your friend about why she is doing this.. and if she still keeps taking them you might have to tell someone hun! sorry if i wasnt much help! keep me posted on what happens..

Much Love Kay

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ok i really need some help with this. ok well i have this friend "betty". shes not like my BESTEST friend but i can keep my secrets with her and i tell her who i like n stuff. well theres this one guy that i like A LOT and hes only a year older than i am. and i told "betty" a few weeks ago that i liked this guy and she was just like oh cool n stuff. well he told one of my friends that he MIGHT want to go out with me so i was EXTREAMLY happy bc this would be my first b/f in jr. high. so i was telling "betty" the story and i was like omg im so excited and she was like "oh well im like madly inlove with him" and i was like ur kidding right? and she said no so i was like well why didnt u tell me a few weeks ago that u liekd him to when i told u that i liked him then? and she said idk i guess it was kinda a secret or something. so im really mad/sad now. this isnt like the movie mean girls where i would get revenge bc shes like such a nice friend n all. but what if this guy asks me out...what do i do or say bc i really like him???

XoXoXo me

tell your friend how much you like him and let her know that you dont want to hurt her by going out with him and all..tell her if you would of known a couple weeks ago she liked him you would of backed off more but now you are really crushin over him...i dont really know what else to do in this situation i guess you are just going to have to follow your heart!!

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okay there is this guy that i think is pretttty hot....ok REALLY hot, he liked me last year, but now theres only one problem, HE LIKES MY BESTFRIEND! HELPPP ME!

aww im very sorry about that hun! i would talk to my friend about it let her know that you still kinda like him (or think he is hot w/e) and see how she feels about him..if she likes him there is two choices you can do
1) get pissed at her say things you dont mean and tell her she is a bad friend for liking someone you like
2) Tell her good luck that you always here for her and you want her to be happy

yes i know it might be upsetting to know that your friend likes the same guy you do :-/ i had the same thing happen to me only i got really pissed at my friend and now were not friends and i miss her terribly..i would talk to her and see how she feels about this boy and just try to be happy for her if she does like him..and Does he know you still think he is hot or w/e? if not maybe you should tell him you never know maybe if he knows you think that he will start to like you again there is always that chance...hope i helped hun! (tell me how everything goes)

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hey .. ok .. here is the thing ..i have 2 best friends.. lets call them elle and iris.. we're really close..we're in 9th grade.. in school, we usually like guys our age or 1 or 2 years older.. there's an important guy at our school and he needs a bodyguard to stay with him. my friend, elle, likes this bodyguard. not offending anyone..but, we're upper class girls and as you may imagine, not only
this guy isn't from the same socially "priviledged" class as us, but he's also around 30 years of age. this is hardly the problem, the guy stares not only at my friend, but at iris and me. iris and i have become very fearful of what this may end in. some dude used to call elle to her cel phone (without telling her who he was
and he asked her sexual things and implying stuff he shouldn't imply. she answered and took things very lightly. anyways, i asked her if she would date him if a relationship would occur (cuz she HAS NEVER had a conv. with him..!!)
she told me she would, and not only date him but have sexual intercourse with him. as you can imagine, i'm very worried because i have no idea what this pedophile freak is capable of. he looks at her with these provocating eyes and she looks back at him, responding.
i dunno what he could do to, not only her, but us. i have this feeling. i dunno if he's capable of doing something to her against her will- as in raping her. i talked to my mom and what she told me was that iris and i needed to talk to elle urgently to tell her what she could get herself into before this goes too far.
SHE TOLD ME SHE LOVED HIM. iris is talking to her mother right now to ask for advice. this is a great deal to both of us so i would REALLY appreciate your advice. thank you so much for reading this long .. thank you ..

wow, that guy is way to old for your friend.. i mean you only in 9th grade..so what your 14 or 15 and he is 30..that is just way to big of an age difference..if i was in the same situation as you i would sit down and talk to my friend about what she might be getting herself into i mean he could be some kind of rapeist, you just dont know what people is capable of these days.. and he must be a pretty weird guy anyways because most 30 your old men dont look at 14 or 15 year old girls that way..thats a red light saying something must be messed up in his brain! but if i was you i would sit down and talk to your friend about what could happen!! hope that helped good luck. (let me know what happens)

xoxo Kayla

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my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..

the first thing i would do is talk to her.. tell her how much you care about her and how good of a friend she is..then i would try to spend more time with her if possible..if she keeps cuttin herself or she acts like she is going to kill herself you could always tell someone..not another kid b/c the next thing you know theres rumors going around that your friend is a psyco.. tell an adult..but i would only tell someone if you know something is going to happen! but i would just talk to her and start spending more time with her..hope that helped..


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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

well hun! i dont think you should have an abortion because i am against that! the baby did nothing wrong, if you didnt think you were up for the responsiblity that comes along with having sex maybe you should of used protection or not had sex, i am not trying to be mean but i just dont believe in abortion..i mean just give the baby up for an adoption.. and you need to tell you parents!! because if you dont they will end up finding out eventually i know you might think they cant but trust me they will.. good luck

xoxo Kayla

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im 14 and i have quite a small penis and i have
been getting teased about it in the locker room
what can i do and will it get bigger?

your only 14 you have plenty of time for your penis to still grow..dont worry about that! and the people that are teasing you are obviously just insacure about themselves so just say something back that will hurt them as much as what they say hurts you... Good*Luck

xoxo, Kay

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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it?

i would still make the guy wear a condom... its not often you get pregnant on the pill but there is always that chance.. so i would make him wear one just to be on the safe side..

Much Love*

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For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks

well i was 15...and i regret it i mean he was my boyfriend but i wish it could of been more special.. we didnt plan it or anything it just happened one night when we were at my house alone watching a movie..i regret it because after me and my ex-had sex our relationship totally changes he wanted to do it all the time he never wanted to just cuddle and stuff he wanted to have sex.. not all guys are going to be like that but thats how the guy i was with was.. we only dated for about another month after having sex.. if i could go back i would of never had sex with him...

Much Love

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I like this guy from another school and my friend told him that i think he is hott, and said he didnt say anything back. what should i do? do i ask him out front and risk everything or do i let it slide and hide my feelings. please dont answer this unless this has happened to you and you can tell me what happend between ya'll. thanks -*lost*

well i have had that happen before..and i didnt hide my feelings or anything i kinda flirted around with him.. and he flirted back, well we started talking more and more and became really good friends.. then he asked me out and we dated for almost 7months..

I dont know if i would just ask him out not knowing how he feels but dont hide your feelings because then if he likes you he might think you dont like him anymore so he might move on! but i would start talking with him and stuff and i mean if he ignores you or avoids you he is an asshole because he could atleast tell you if he is interested or not... hope that helped sweetie.. good luck!!

Much Love

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ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do.

hun, if you only like him as a friend tell him.. but be nice about it tell him you think he is really nice and everything but you just dont see you two as more than just friends... if you tell him nicely that shouldnt hurt his feelings or anything he might act weird around you for a few days but im sure everything will go back to being normal.. i have been in that situation before and now we are like the best of friends..
hope i helped...


Much Love

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.::**14/f**::.

okay, here it goes! i have a large chest to be honest. i love it though i think its just right for my body shape but they're bigger than anyone else's. and i used to be frends w/ this boy.. and i liked him alot. and we'd like touch each other and hug and kiss and stuff but nothing really that bad((im only 14 ppls!)). but when we stopped bein frends (long story..) he told all his frends i stuffed my bra and that my chest wasnt real and everyone believed him.. including his frend (who i like now). so i dunno what to do its kind of an akward topic but if it ever comes up i dunno what to say? :(

puh-lease help me, i rate!

wow what an asshole for telling people that! well if anyone brings it up just be like how would you know if i stuff my bra? have you ever seen me do it? then be like god blessed me with my chest i dont have to be fake... if they still dont believe you then screw them because some people just believe rumors and never give anyone a chance to explain wether the rumors are true or not.. but you could always imbarres the boy who said that to people in front of his friends that will really bruise his ego.. and it will also maybe make him realize he aint as tough as he thinks he is... hope i help!
Good Luck Hun! :-)

Much Love

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this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?

first of all im sorry about that hun! but maybe you should ask her what happened..i mean if she truely liked you she would of never gone out with one of your friends.. and if your friend that she started going out with knew that you liked her he should of never gone out with her because i dont feel friends should do that! thats just shitty....

MuchLove

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Hey, i dont know wat to do my ex-bf broke upwith me and this kid i know that likes me and i like him just got outta jail my ex already got a new girl should i wait 4 them to break up or go 4 the one dat just got outta jail.
Jason-17 just got outta jail
Justin- 15 new girl
HELP ME NOW PLEASE WAT SHALL I DO!!!!!!

well babe!! if the kid that likes you was in jail for a really bad reason i dont know if i would date him! but that is your decision.. if you really still like you ex maybe you should tell him! you never know what might happen if you tell him how you still feel..but go with what you heart tells you to hun! "everything happens for a reaon"
-Hope That Helped If Not Im Sorry-
*Much Love xOxO KaYLa*

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