Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:08 pm
ok i really need some help with this. ok well i have this friend "betty". shes not like my BESTEST friend but i can keep my secrets with her and i tell her who i like n stuff. well theres this one guy that i like A LOT and hes only a year older than i am. and i told "betty" a few weeks ago that i liked this guy and she was just like oh cool n stuff. well he told one of my friends that he MIGHT want to go out with me so i was EXTREAMLY happy bc this would be my first b/f in jr. high. so i was telling "betty" the story and i was like omg im so excited and she was like "oh well im like madly inlove with him" and i was like ur kidding right? and she said no so i was like well why didnt u tell me a few weeks ago that u liekd him to when i told u that i liked him then? and she said idk i guess it was kinda a secret or something. so im really mad/sad now. this isnt like the movie mean girls where i would get revenge bc shes like such a nice friend n all. but what if this guy asks me out...what do i do or say bc i really like him???
XoXoXo me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxBabyGirlxx answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:47 pm: tell your friend how much you like him and let her know that you dont want to hurt her by going out with him and all..tell her if you would of known a couple weeks ago she liked him you would of backed off more but now you are really crushin over him...i dont really know what else to do in this situation i guess you are just going to have to follow your heart!!
penguinxown answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:16 pm: Been in that situation before
But I didnt want to hurt my friends feeling so I didnt.
But its up to you, I mean do you think your friend would be okay with it?
If not then there is going to be a battle between having the same old friendship or losing it to some guy. [ penguinxown's advice column | Ask penguinxown A Question ]
dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:14 pm: (I love Mean Girls! Great movie) If you both have the hotts for him, talk to your friend if he asks you out. Tell your friend that he and her could be good friends, but you really want to go out wit him. I'd tell your friend what you told me as well. Good luck! [ dramaqueenbabeiwb's advice column | Ask dramaqueenbabeiwb A Question ]
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