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Trouble? Sorry this is long, but please answer me. I have two friends. One is my bff, the other a good friend. We'll call my bff 1 and my friend 2. We all get along, but 2 is always jealous when I hang out with 1. It's like, 2 always HAS to be there, or she gets all pissed and mad. It is so annoying! So anyway, I wanna take friend 1 on vacation with me this summer. What should I say to friend 2?
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make sure only you and friend 1 kno about it.. DUH ]
Don't tell both friends that you are going to take someone on vacation. It's fine if they know you're going somewhere, but it'll only cause jealousy if one knows the other gets to go and she doesn't.
If they already know that you're taking a friend, then perhaps you should take a friend that's not one of the two you're worried about.
From what this sounds like, friend 2 is afraid that friend 1 is going to take your friendship away from her. If you don't already, try to balance the time you spend with each person as equally as possible. I know, this is hard, but you can do it.
Best of luck. ]
take both with you if you can. maybe "2" doesnt like "1" so thats why shes jealous. that, or take neither, or dont tell 2 you both went. ]
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