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he keeps askin me out!!!!!
ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do.
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um.. just tell him u dotn like him that way.. be honest cause if ur not honest its gonna turn in to a bad situation.. and thats not cool that other people say that just tell them to stop or b like hes a nice guy.. hope i helped
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hun, if you only like him as a friend tell him.. but be nice about it tell him you think he is really nice and everything but you just dont see you two as more than just friends... if you tell him nicely that shouldnt hurt his feelings or anything he might act weird around you for a few days but im sure everything will go back to being normal.. i have been in that situation before and now we are like the best of friends..
hope i helped...
Much Love
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If you don't like him, you shouldn't date him. That's not fair to you OR him.
I think you should just be honest and polite - upfront. Let him know that you are really flattered, and that you think he's a great guy, but you just aren't interested in him 'that way.'
Hopefully this will get the message across...and it also sounds like he might need a good friend.
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Hey~I had a guy do that to me to. Just tell him that you don't see him as more than a friend, and she should understand, and if he doesn't then thats something he has to get over in his own time(kinda corny, I know) Well I hope I helped! ~Paige~
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if you dont like him more than a friend dont go out with him just to be nice. Going out with him while lying to yourself would be even meaner to him. Express to him you only wanna be friends. That wont hurt his feelings cause its not mean, not at all.
GL
XOXOXO
ps. Dont be afraid to stand up for him! When people make fun of him, tell them to keep their big trash talkin mouths shut
best wishes, rate me please.
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oh I love these kind of questions...prolly cuz i mainly go through these! I've had a lot of guys who have asked me out that r guy friends...that I just plainly don't like (in that way) and I always felt sooo bad saying no! but then I realized...NEVER SAY YES! ok yea I've had 2 pitty boyfriends and they both sucked. u never talk it's always awkward...and ur embarrassed of the guy...bad isn't it? anyways just tell him that when u go out wiht a guy then when u guys break up most likely you won't talk anymore cuz it wont be awkward and u dont want that to happen! u wanna stay good friends and going out will jepardize it. hope i helped..sry ur in such a horrible position lol haha, :) good luck
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You just need to let him down gently and let him tho that he is a really nice guy but yall two would just be better off friends.hoped i helped
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