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theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm <3?!
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i honestly don't think you can change a player, if he wants to change he'll have to do it himself and in his own time. i'd be a little cautious about going out with him, espiecially if you already know he has a bad rep. with girls.
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You can't change A PLAYER. And if it may seem like you may change them, you really aren't. That's just who they are.
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umm, i would say flat out NO, but you could... but its always easier to not deal with that person. Women always want to change the players, and i know from experience that it doesnt work. So, if you want to try to stick it out with him, its not gonna hurt me. But i wouldn't try it. Although 'once playa always playa' doesnt always apply, a lot of guys (And girls) are still like that- sorry...
**_Nicole_**
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You may be able to picture all this stuff, but once a player, always a player, I say. I dated two of them, and I don't think either of them have ever had a girlfriend they didn't cheat on, including me.
Sure, both of them liked me. One even claimed to love me, but now that I know more about the minds of 18 year old guys (I was 14 at the time, he was 18), I realize he was using "love" to get sex. Once he found out he wouldn't get what he wanted, he broke it off.
Never think you can change someone. They have to change themselves, and even that's difficult. Like, REALLY difficult.
Think about this, sweetheart...do you really want to go with a guy who "can have grls in a sec"? Would you TRUST him not to cheat on you? If you're okay with him cheating, or not being his only girl, then I'd say go right ahead and go out with him. If not, I would hesitate before committing myseslf to him (i.e. sex).
Be careful in this situation. You could end up really hurt. Sex is a big thing for girls, emotionally. We tend to really attach ourselves to guys we have sex with, whether we want to or not.
Well that's my opinion on the whole thing. The decision is obviously yours.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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once a player, always a player. If he knows he can get any girl he wants and do any girl he wants hes not going to just stick with you for very long. He'll move onto the "newest, hottest, pretty, sweetwest, sexy, funny" girl he can find. And he will cheat on you, find excuses, take advantage. No,no,no hes all bad news. I dont recommend u guiiz getting together
im not tryin to be tha rain on your parade... but ive seen shyt happen... it will easily happen to you if your not on your guard... plus you may REALLY wnna go out with him, but it will be worth NOTHING wen he dumps u and makes u feel like garbage..
GL sweets...
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