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okay here it goes... my friend is goin out with this guy that she really likes and he just is devoted to her (so she tells me). i've heard from his best friend that he is just goin out with her for the looks and poularity that comes along with her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her but i dont want her to get hurt eaither. I dont like him mutch, i mean hes really mean to me and i think she deserves better. What do i do? HELP!!!!
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This has sort of happened to me before. My best friend told me her boyfriend was "the one" and they were in "love" but really she tought he was the one and was the only one in love. He liked her because her body and her popularity in school. I know it was hard for me to tell her but I had to. So try to have a girls night and watch movies. And then at night start talking about boys and lay it down on her but very like nicely. Try to make it nice at least,And if she gets hurt, just remind her there are other fish in the sea and she has a long life ahead of her for dating.
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I think you need to tell your friend how you feel because, she could really get hurt ; you won't feel to good about yourself if you just let this happen . Of course, you know this . She may not like the truth , but she'll have to except it the easy way or hard way . If she excepts it with difficulty, then it'll be a path that'll turn into another hard lesson learned . Tell her . She may not understand then , but she'll understand later .
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you really need to talk to her about what you heard. Try to put it in a nice way and if you cant you juss have to remind yourself that your doing it for her and if you dont say anything than she mite find out the hard way. Its best if you juss let her know what you heard. She defineltley deserves someone better.
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just talk to her and tell her u dont wanna hurt her but this is what u heard.. she can eaither thank u for tellin her or get mad and think that u just dont want her to b happy.. and if u think she deserves better then she proublay does... hope i helped
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Tell your friend right away! It's totally not fair to her if she's being used by him just cuz she's pretty and popular. Confront her about it and say, "Look, I know that you really really like (Name of her BF), but I heard that he's using you. It might be a rumor, but keep an eye on him." She IS going to be defensive, no surprise about that, but don't try forcing her to dump her man. That part is up to her. But if she plans to stick wit her hunny, then at least you warned her. But be there for her if she really needs consoling. Anyway, who knows? It might even not be true that her man is using her.
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get a life y do you ask me i need more help than you muahahahahahahahahahahah
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hey hey hey before u do anyhitng u gotta find out if its true if u dont and go tell her u could be brakin up a good relationship here if its true than u tell her and if shes a true friend than shell believe u if not than look for a new friend
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