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ok, there is tis guy at school who really likes me. so he asked me to the school dance, i said yes and we went together. i really wanted him to ask me to slow dance but he didn't until the last song, when i was tired and didn't want to dance anymore. so i said no thx, not maybe next time. now he thinks i rejected him from being a couple, and he won't even talk to me anymore. what should i do to get him to talk to me again?

Hmm this is kind of a hard one but lets try.

I would try to talk to him if you haven't done so already. Maybe ask him why he won't talk to you try and see what is wrong with him. Maybe it isn't just what you did, it could be something else like something he has on his mind. Maybe in his head things just wouldn't work out. You should seriously have a really deep conversation with him and see what is bugging him. Really deep conversations always work for me.

I hope that helps.

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okay here it goes... my friend is goin out with this guy that she really likes and he just is devoted to her (so she tells me). i've heard from his best friend that he is just goin out with her for the looks and poularity that comes along with her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her but i dont want her to get hurt eaither. I dont like him mutch, i mean hes really mean to me and i think she deserves better. What do i do? HELP!!!!

This has sort of happened to me before. My best friend told me her boyfriend was "the one" and they were in "love" but really she tought he was the one and was the only one in love. He liked her because her body and her popularity in school. I know it was hard for me to tell her but I had to. So try to have a girls night and watch movies. And then at night start talking about boys and lay it down on her but very like nicely. Try to make it nice at least,And if she gets hurt, just remind her there are other fish in the sea and she has a long life ahead of her for dating.

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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!!

I would ask your boyfriend about some of the things his mom is into like hobbies and stuff. So that way you have subjects to talk about in the car if it gets quiet. Also be really polite and be reallly calm. Try your best not to get nervous it might be hard but just try. If she ask you some questions about school and stuff try to make your answers short but not to short. Also try to keep a conversation going.

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I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what?

You need to ask her about it, but don't be all mean when you ask her. Just calmly ask her about it and if she says she didn't then don't be all like, "well so and so said you did so im not believing you" if she is your best friend she will tell the truth. Plus you never know your ex can have a thing for you and he might be saying that so you don't like that guy and stuff.

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Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks

I have my belly button pierced but I got it done at a piercing place. I don't think you should do it on your own because when you go and get it done they take out a chunk of skin so it doesn't get pushed out. They have to do that or the ring will be rejected. I know it might hurt and all but yeah. If you do it on your own I'm sure it might come out maybe not for a while but it will one day. Plus it is safer to get it done by someone who knows what they are doing.

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I see a few guys in my school who look at me like theyre checking me out. We're good friends and everything, but how do i go about choosing one? I already know they like me, its blaintly obvious and ive learned to figure that out by now. But how do i know which one i should flirt with a little more, and get to know them so that we can be together?

Just think about two things. Which one you have the most in common with and which one likes you for who you are and not your looks. Also which one do you see yourself with? If all then which one do you see yourself with for the longest time? If you can't choose on those then you should just get the time to know eacho one better and see who you like the most.

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