Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 5:02 pm
I see a few guys in my school who look at me like theyre checking me out. We're good friends and everything, but how do i go about choosing one? I already know they like me, its blaintly obvious and ive learned to figure that out by now. But how do i know which one i should flirt with a little more, and get to know them so that we can be together?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? -JP- answered Thursday September 30 2004, 5:07 pm: Here's a tip: pick one that will treat you well and be there for you. All to often do girls fall for the guy who treats them poorly and will eventually have the girl questioning themselves, what they did wrong, etc. They think that they can make him change his ways: they can't. Girls often ask, "Why can't I find the right guy?" The answer is simple: that guy is always right infront of you, but is rejected because he is actually genuine, sincere, and kind. You view him as a friend and let go of the fact that he can be more and will still be kind of you. It seems that girls would rather pick the guy who can "spit game" instead of picking the one who is his himself and won't have you guessing at what kind of person he is, as it's right on the table from the beginning. [ -JP-'s advice column | Ask -JP- A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Thursday September 30 2004, 4:57 pm: Well, try and deside which one you like the best, like his personality traits, are you guys alike in any way or not?, are you interested in the same things, are you attracked to him..? You know, those kind of things. Well, hope I helped hun!
Trppnclark1167 answered Thursday September 30 2004, 10:24 am: You need to get to know them more, ask them personal questions, know their personality, if you like one of them, go with him, I dont know how you would do this without breaking one of them so they wouldn't like you at all, maybe just no go out with either of them, im sorry but that might be the only way to do this without breaking a friendship
jessikahboobfest answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 7:19 pm: Just think about two things. Which one you have the most in common with and which one likes you for who you are and not your looks. Also which one do you see yourself with? If all then which one do you see yourself with for the longest time? If you can't choose on those then you should just get the time to know eacho one better and see who you like the most. [ jessikahboobfest's advice column | Ask jessikahboobfest A Question ]
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