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aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened???
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Honesty is the best thing in a relationship. I think you should tell your boyfriend. Im sure he will understand. If he takes it the wrong way just tell him what happend and just say to him :"but your the only one for me, i love you, i want to be with you" ~you know stuff like that~ but there is something only you can decide, who do you like better?
good luck!!
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ouch! datz not good you should definatly tell him because if you dont he'll find out and then he'll be even more upset. but tell him the truth dont jus say it was an accident cuz honey u did it freely wheather u regret it or not.
-cassie
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what do you mean by accidentally...if you do tell your boyfriend you better have a better story than you accidentally did...you probabaly need to tell him just lay it on him easy and make it sound like maing out with him is soo much better and let him no how sorry you are
good luck
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Yes, I think that you should tell your boyfriend what happened. You should always be honest. If you don't tell him, then you will always have that gut feeling that tells you that you never told him about that. You should really tell him this. Tell him that it was an accident and you don't know why you did it. I'm sure he'll understand. If he did something like that, I'm sure he would tell you about it. If you don't tell him, then he could possibly find out from someone else and that would be horrible. He would me mad that you didn't tell him yourself and that he found out from someone else. Just be honest and tell him the truth. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should be fine!
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nobody accedentally makes out with somebody so tell the boy u just started going out with that u hav a bf and don't want to her u and his realationship
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Well,
i think you should. if you really like your boyfriend you should tell him. If you know he'll understand tell him before it gets worse. if he does break up with you , you can at least go out wit the guy you made out with..lol. but, you should definitely tell him!
Hope i helped
AggieCutie
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that all depends on if you felt some thing when you and your *guy friend* madeout... if you did fee something then you should let your boyfriend and guyfriend know...either way i think that you should tell your boyfriend....b/c if he finds out from someone other than you than he wont know if you havnt told him other things or if you have lied to him before.
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You have 2 options as I see it. You can:
A. Not tell your boyfriend, and feel like a bad slut for a while (which you're not, you're just human...everyone makes mistakes) But the downsides of that are as following--your concious is never going to let you let that one go...and you're going to feel rather weird (guilty) while around your boyfriend for awhile. I can't think of any upsides...other then he won't be mad at you
B. Tell your boyfriend. Downsides: He could possibly break up with you/ get pissed for awhile. But the upsides are that your relationship will be stronger in the end (because no relationship is strong if it's just peaches and cream) And your concious will feel muuuuuch better.
I can't choose for you. But I gave you your options.
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What do u mean accidently? If you have feelings for your boy friend you wouldnt have cheated on him in the first place. You should deffinitly tell your boyfriend because its not right to keep the truth away from him.
~Brina~
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how do yu exactly makeout ACCIDENTALLY you ass.
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of course you should tell him but just be like yeah i was kinda f-ed up and like a little white lie wont hurt so just like i guess if you want to break up with him then tell the truth but if you dint then dondt tell him.. yet but he will find out sooner or later so yeah just make sure that you do know that!
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If he will roll with it tell him. It really depends on how honest a relationship you want this guy. If you are going to continually hit on this guy on the side, tell him and let him know. If it was a one time shot, it's not worth the feelings.
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i think u shoul be honest with him and tell him that u did it! but tell him it will never happen again and that he's ur one and only!
*BeSs*
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You might risk losing your boyfriend but a relationship is based on trust, love, and honesty. If you want him to **Trust** you and maybe **love** you, then you have to be **honest**. You better tell him before someone else does. You have to tell him that you're really sorry and you don't know what you were thinking and you have to promise never to do it again. If you are good at acting, try to cry because it makes it work better in the forgiving part of it. You just have to be more careful next time. Also, if he does stay with you, you have to watch out for your best guy friend because if your boyfriend really does like you, he'll probably beat the shit out of him. You have to be straight up with him, tell him what happened. If he hears it from someone else he'll get pissed off even more. But for future, be more careful. Hope this helped!
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