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not sure what to do


Question Posted Tuesday April 12 2005, 6:39 pm

Ok i have this friend that is like a big drinker and i try to get her to stop but it is just not working what should i do. if you can help write. M.Lee

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foxychick993 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:54 am:
M. Lee,
I am touched by your consideration for your friends. I wish I had a friend like you. Tell your friend you are way worried about her. Tell hr what she is doing is bad for her. Tell her that every time she drinks, it burns her liver and she can drown in her own blood. just sharing what I learned in health class. Well, hope i helped. PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS

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Trinity answered Saturday April 16 2005, 12:31 pm:
If she's under 21, you need to get her help. Talk to her parents. She may hate you at that moment in time, but she'll thank you later for saving her life, in a sense. She definatly needs to stop drinking. She'll see that you are a good friend for helping her!

Good luck!

-Trin

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hitler_the_goat answered Thursday April 14 2005, 9:22 pm:
let her drive you home.
need i state the obvious? tell somebody!
-hitler
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what do you mean? i already drink canned breakfast, its not like my alcoholism could get any worse.

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Michele answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:40 pm:
There is this book that just came out. It is written by a young girl, She is about 21 now, but she had been drinking for a long time, she started at a young age. It is called SMASHED, and the author is Koren Zailckas. You and your friend might find it interesting. Try and get a copy, they may even have it at the library. I think that reading that book may open her eyes, and help her to realize what she is headed for.
Good for you for caring enough.

Michele

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megan answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 5:23 pm:
tell someone else about this so that they can help you. its hard doing this kind of stuff on your own.

hope i helped

~megan~

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xoxbellabebexox answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 10:09 pm:
M.lee,
you need to sit your friend down and tell her that her drinking is scaring you. that she should be able to come her you about everything just like how ur coming to her. she might say o everyones doing it when in reality people r doing it for the same reason. tell her your there for her. if it doesnt work ask me again but for now do that
hope it helps {member im always on!}

<3 britt

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just_ask_me answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 9:37 pm:
If she is under 21, you definitely need to get her help. If she drinks atleast once a day, there is a serious problem. Alcohol is a drug that can be easily abused, so she might already be an alcoholic. Tell your parents/her parents about it or write a letter to her or talk to her privately. Don't let this go on, because it's better to stop this problem now than let it go any further & get worse. good luck xo

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