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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help

well fights happen. and thats so awesome that you guys made up and to me you seem like a totally lucky girl. all i can say about the cheerleader thing is. .. you saud hes the kind of guys every girl wants. well. if he really doesn't like her always trust him and if i were you i would just stand up to this 'head cheerleader' who seems sluty and thinks she can walk all over people. you already seem like a lucky girl so just trust your bf who seems faithful and awesome and if things bother you with the cheerleader... tell her yourself to back or cuss her out.. you & your bf together! then maybe she'll get the picture!

best of luck-- kaley

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my friend richard is really cute but has a girlfriend well we went to a kickback and he got me drunk aswell as his self well when he was drunk he tried to take advantage of me he didnt get to but he did finger me and stuff lets just say we did 3rd base he doesnt remember what happened and my friend told me he keeps asking me if i remember what should i tell him? should i be mad? should i 4 get it?

well first off.. were you drunk or did you just go with the flow so to speak? you need to tell him what happened and be honest. if your really friends... be honest with each other and things will work out.

best of luck-- kaley

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ok...my boyfriend and i have been having problems lately...but only i realize it....he told me he stopped smoking weed 2 wks ago...and now i found out hes back on it...and also...we wer suppose to go to see the grudge yesterday and then he told me he had no money n it was bc h e bought weed instead....well so friday i had plans to go to this shoppin area with my 2 friends n he calls me and asks to go somewhere with him....i told him where i was going n that i already had plans n asked if he wanted to come...well he kept making excuses and i havent seen him for a week...so i was like getting kinda mad so finally he was like ok fine ill go and i was like u dont have to if u dont wanna but he ended up coming...well he acted so mean most of the time...he sat with his friends n sat there whispering n laffing while i just sat with my friends....i kept askin if he was mad or something n hed just say no....finally he started acting himself again and i told him to call me that nite when he got home n i was like and don forget this time n he was like ok i wont i promise...and he didnt call...and he didnt call all day today....tomrow hes suppose to come over n wer gonna go trick or treatin together (we still like trick or treating lol) and idk if i shuld call him 2 ask if he is still coming or if i shoudl wait n see if he calls me...idk wat his prob is.....wat shuld i do im reallie upset....

ok- if you cant be honest with someone that your in a relationship with, then you need to end it. a relationship without trust can go on very long. and to top it off that hes mean, smoking pot and telling you hes not. you can do sooooo much better than that. cuz i bet your awesome. so if i were you... i'd dump him asap and go after someone whos worth your time and will treat you right.

best of luck-- kaley

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