Question Posted Thursday November 4 2004, 11:46 am
i feel like im so clueless all the time i dont know whats going on ever with my freinds and i kinda feel like im invisible and sometimes i feel like my freinds arent really my friends and im just there with them and not really freinds i dont have a best freind i thought all my friends were my best freinds but i dont think so what do i do? i feel like moving to another school but that wont do anything so ive just decided to be miserable....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xpianogirl89x answered Thursday November 4 2004, 8:28 pm: Aww don't decide to be miserable!! I know how this feels but maybe things aren't so bad... look really hard and try to find a friend in someone... it might be someone you'd never really thought of... I doubt your parents will let you move to another school (i've had those thoughts before) so try to make the best of what you have... Maybe join a club or a sport there you will definitely make some new friends! Well good luck and I'm sorry i couldn't be of more help! If you need someone to talk to you can just drop me one in my inbox...
brunettem51 answered Thursday November 4 2004, 4:51 pm: Never never do that. Talk to them. Have conversations with other people too. Be yorself. If someone doesn't like you for some reason and you dun no y they aren't worth it. stay strong XD [ brunettem51's advice column | Ask brunettem51 A Question ]
HappyAdvice answered Thursday November 4 2004, 4:28 pm: Dont be miserable...thats lame, no offensce:-(
if you really dont fit in with these people then just make new friedns. there has to be other poeple at your scool that you can become friends with. So what if there not popular or whatever the problem is. As long as your happy you shouldn't care what other people think.
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V answered Thursday November 4 2004, 3:23 pm: I've had the same problems before. And I can assure you, there's no use being miserable about it. If you haven't already talked to your friends about how you feel, I suggest you bring it up. They might not know that you're feeling left out. If that doesn't work, however, you may want to try making some new friends. Don't completely cut off contact with your old friends, of course, but try and "put yourself out there". Be outgoing, and make sure you have a smile for everyone. Your attitude is infectious.
HurleyGurley answered Thursday November 4 2004, 1:53 pm: i have the same problem...i just hang out with the "friend" that's closest to me, jsut be really nice to everyone and people will start to realize what a cool person you are! :) xoxo [ HurleyGurley's advice column | Ask HurleyGurley A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Thursday November 4 2004, 12:43 pm: aww ... cheer up! :) maybe u need to talk to ur friends about this see what they think!! involve urself within their conversations invite them places show them how much u care!!
blake08 answered Thursday November 4 2004, 11:59 am: Believe,
I think that you should prob. ask your friends if they care about you, and if they do then they will tell you. Dont go around being scared weither you have friends or not when you dont een know if that is the way that theyu feel. And if they dont like you for what you are then they were never really good friends in the first place. Well, and if you believe in yourself you dont need anyone to help you through the things that you go though.
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