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IS blood really thicker then water??
Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!)
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do what makes u happy... if u do have sex with him dont tell ur bro my sister is older then me and she had sex with this one guy and i didnt approve of it but she is my sister and i love her so i respect her for her decition
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I really dont think your brother means that.He's pry just being any other brother(protective of his sister).I'm sure your older then me but my brother is just like that.Actually he is exactly like that.Well if you really love Naz and you know its real i would.It's your life and as long as you know what your doing that's the important issue.Hope it works out!Good Luck.
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I dunno about you but my best friends big bro was like my big brother. One day he told me that hot dogs were made of dogs. IS it true? No. Pretend you're an adult and your 30 or something. Pretend its the same situation, would you really still listen to your brother. Its your life do what you want but if you do have sex remember to use condoms etc. Oh yeah just think about how awkward it'll be with him as your best friend who you slept with.
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ok maybe its just be but to me this "Naz" guy sounds like chump and i don't think you should really be wasting your time on him and giving yourself up, but it is your desicion and i think you should listen to your brother, if you want a good reputation you should wait but if you want to be known as a slut go ahead, :) xoxo -i know im sorry i may sound mean but it's the truth and im trying to be as honest as possible
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i think you should just do it. If your really in love then go for it hun.. dont care what other people think. Its better to do it now and forget about it then think about your hole life how you let him slip by. Hope I Helped :-)
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well you don't have to listen to this but i am 17 and i know what its like to be in love like that and well one night i aalmost made the mistake of giving my virginity away to someone i thought i loved and still do but it never really worked out between us because you can't always control what happens so now me and this girl are just friends. but best friends and i still love her but i had the chance because i think it is better if you save yourself for the one that is going to marry you because then you know its true love and you know that he won't be using you and it also depends how old you are. you may really love this boy ,but it just may not be right you can only lose your virinity once and once you lose it and if you and this boy never talk again it won't be as special with you husband. your brother isn't totally right you won't be a whore if you do it. and if you do decide to do it make sure that you take all the right moves to stay safe from pregnancy and diseases and if you want to talk more then just write in my column
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you might really like or love this boi but you have to take things slow before something goes really far.if u truly love him and urself then don't because the best gift u can ever have is ur virginity but after u 2 do have "it" things might change and u will regret it and as far as ur brother goes he has no right to tell u those things but in the other hand he's just tryin to watch out 4 u.well i hope i helped....good luck
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Ok, I know.... I have done it b 4 and heres what u do.. u make him whare a condom NO MATTER WHAT! and dont tell miggy or ur 'rents! ur not a slut ur horny! good luk! let me no how it goes..! VonDutchQt34 or e-mail-- jrhiteentweendiva88@yahoo.com gooood luck...
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ok , i think that you should maybe wait just a little bit longer .. and how old are you? ..
yu could be in love but still, your bro is just looking out for you and everything and doesnt want to see anything bad happen to you..
and you will always remember your first so make sure you really really wana do this and use protection!!!!
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~Okay. This isn't an easy one but listen. I can't change your mind. I can only influence your choice. I personally don't feel it has been long enough. I think you should probably give it time. Make sure that everything is really really gonna work out because if you give that to him. The only most special thing that you have to yourself then you will regret it. I had to be close to my boyfriend for 3 years before I did and I still think I should have waited. If something happens to your relationship it will tear you up. If you need anymore advice on this jut put it in my colum. I am open to help as much as I can. Please just be careful in the desicion you do make.~
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Well does he love you? or even like u like that? if not then hes just using you cuz he knows you love him and will do anything for him. and that means hes gonna try to get some..
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