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REALLY CONFUSED! (sry its so long lol)


Question Posted Monday August 2 2004, 5:25 pm

ok. this is kinda confusing. but the (semi) short version is:
i liked this kid and he didnt like me bak so i made up this grl "jennie" on AIM and pretnded she was 1 of my frends. and one day we were talking about "me" (this kid and "jennie" were) and he sed i was fat and ugly. so a week after that i told him it was me and he got all pissed and so he sed hed get mebak or w/e and i fugured i deserved it. but he sed he knew alredi it was me b4 i told him-- but i dont believe him. ne way... so he was mada t me for a while, and he didnt talk to me and then wen he did, all he did was ask me for my frends' s/ns. and i gave them to him figureing he deserved them. but then he started calling them and meeting them at the mall 4 movies and (i still liked him by the way) i kept wondering wut was rong w/ me that he didnt like me like that. this kid has been my neighbor 4 about four yrs now and not once have i been to the movies w/ him. and like, he knew i liked him and yet, he still kept talk in bou thow much he LOVED my frends. ok im almost done. so yesterday, i told him i had a boyfrend i met online and uk wut he sed? after i told him i was kidding he sed he didnt believe me anyways cuz i cudnt get a b/f if i tried. idk if he was tryin to be funny, (cuz hes like that sumtimes) but i didnt find it funny. and so after that, i asked him not 2 tell ne 1 bout my "boyfrend"; so naturally, he goes in his house, IMs it 2 everi 1 on his buddylist and calls and tells his best frend. i had had enough by this point. so i ran inside and stayed there. and ignored him the restof the day. and he has the nerve to lie to me and tell me that no 1 knos... haha. rite. cuz didnt i jsut happen to talk to the kid he was on the fone with, and it turns out that he is no one, cuz he happend to kno all of what i told the kid not to tell. but today i started to tell him how much hes hurt me and he was hardly listin to me he just was tellin me random stuff, so i gave up. i didnt kno wut to do. i was PISSED. i wen in the house and cried pitifully. and idk wut to do now. i rly wanna tell him how much he hurt me and gr... lol im not sure he cares. wut if he duznt? wut shud i do? and all he talks about is my frends and i m like hey! wut abou tme! i feel so out-of -the- picture even tho im the closest to him. HELP!
~rly desperately confused and agrivated
(Lizzie)

ps im 13 and hes 14 if that helps ne


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cowgurls_rock answered Monday August 2 2004, 8:45 pm:
hey umm well this guy sounds like a major jerk dont let him get u down ! and even tho her ur neighbour dont worrie just give him the silent treatment it works ! and plus at 13 and 14 no one ( boy or gurl ) knoes wut they want so dont worrie about his hes a jerk! and im sure ur not ugly or fat ! everyone is beautiful so dont worrie cuz theres prolly nuthing wrong with u ! hope i helped Plus u seem like too good of a person to be around him !
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hot_tamalee_1218 answered Monday August 2 2004, 6:18 pm:
omg what a freaking butt whole seriously...you need to GET OVER HIM and soon. if he had the nerve to say that about you and stuff and then hes not worth n e thing. BUT you need to be like ok listen up here buddy... u really hurt my feelings and if he still doesnt care just dont EVEN bother with him... "leave him be in his fake plastic trees" and hopefully if n e of ur others friends go out with him u can tell um that hes not worth it.

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Jes4advice answered Monday August 2 2004, 5:33 pm:
Dont worry, just forget about him. But tlk to your friends because hes using them to get u pissed off. Just tel them flat out. Besides dont let him put u down.. uve got to show him whos boss, forget about the loser and welcome the next one. Hope I helped! ~Jes~

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UrNuMbEr1FaN answered Monday August 2 2004, 5:33 pm:
jst be like i kno u dont wanna hear it but if ud jst listen once and tell him wat ever u want to say and jst be like i nevr meant for it to go this far i jst realli liked u and now i feel stupid and sorry about it ....welll good luck anyway

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RoNdEllWhItE88 answered Monday August 2 2004, 5:32 pm:
ight here it is girl u gotta wake up fomr a guy veiw he dont give a shyt about u see as i guy i kno this there our times when we have these girls on the side that like us and we dont lik em we juss like the fact that thy like us, and thats what hes doin to u, hes just usin u to gt to yo friends, and u need to stop likin him cuz obviously he dont care bout u cuz he dont show u no rspect , all u hav to do is if u find a man and go out with him he will be so jealous cuz he wont liek u but hell be mad cuz u got yo own man and he cant brin u down anymore, so what im syin is just stay strong and when u finr mr. right u wont evne be thinkin bout dat kid

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sarcasticgal1221 answered Monday August 2 2004, 5:31 pm:
He sounds like a jerk.

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