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Not in with the crowd!!
Hi um i have always had alot of friends and really great ones too but this past school year i have entered the 7th grade and i am going into the 8th and i feel lyk my friends do not lyk to do stuff with me! They have meet some new friends but i have too but not as great as them and i feel really bad when i hear about them going places when i was not invited!!
What is wrong with me and what should i do to fix this problem?
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wow...as people get older they start to move on...maybe the problems not you...you shouldnt feel bad about not being invited...i mean they dont have to invite you to EVERYTHING they do...try exploring other options...meeting new people...oim not saying STOP being friends with these people...just give 'em a break and move on!
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The most common thing about highschool is that, yes, a lot of times tension with all your friends will occur. You'll find that some friends are worth staying close with while others never were there in the first place. But definitely explain how you feel to your friends...let them know. Maybe they just need space. When you get a lot of new friends you sort of want to know them one on one. But if you're the only one who doesn't get invited you really need to talk to yoru friends about it and ask why. If they start to get mean...maybe they changed social groups. For example..your friends start to change because they are still trying to find out who they are and sometimes they'll ditch you and hang out with other people. So you could take a break from them if that happens and start hanging out with people you really like. That way you won't feel so alone and you woun't feel as left out as before. Good luck!! Love you! -Mandee
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i felt like that before. i hate it, nothings wrong with you! talk to your friends, tell them how u feel! its good to make new friends, keep it up! talk to your friends! hope i helped - Jackie
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Just tell ur friends that u would like to be invited to places they go. since ya'll r friends. But then every now and then as u grow up ur going to make new friends. They might not be as gr8 as the others, but u just got 2 tough it out. Dont worry, friends come and friends go! Hope I helped! ~Jes~
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talk to ur friends about it see what the dealio is. some friends just grow apart.... im sorry to say...hope this helps....//\//\//\
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