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Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on?
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You're freaked out about the topic of sex. Try meditation.
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your just nervous about taking it to the next level i was the same way with mine.just talk to him and tell him what your feeling and maybe ya can slow it down for a mintue until you feel your ready. its all ok.......
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u don't want 2 sleep w/ him! ur scared. don't do anything if ur so petrified.
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um, if your in 8th grade, or whatever, you shouldnt even be thinking of that stuff, and besides, whats the "next step" anyway? dont answer that cause i know, but really, just stick with the movies and mcdonalds.
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Learn how to spell PHONE!
Your probably excited cause your gunna finally get to fuck him.
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y0u c0uld be even nerv0us 0r scared 0r even excited.
x0x m0rgan
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Shaking is definitely a fear reaction. You don't say you feel nervous, and your shaking goes on for quite a while. I'm definitely not a professional, but I think something is up here. If you have access to a psychologist or councilor, I suggest talking to one. If not, find someone you can trust with your fears and secrets - someone who wasn't around when you were a baby or kid - and talk to them about it. Let yourself ramble on.
Try some experiments - does this happen whenever you talk about sex with anyone? Does it only happen when you talk about certain particular parts of sexual interaction? Does it only happen on the phone, or do you start to shake when you talk about it in person? What about when your write about it?
I agree with previous advisors that you should not go "to the next step" until you've at least figured out the cause of the shaking.
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You're probably just really nervous...like last night I was @ my friends house talking on the phone w.this guy and I accidently hung it up!! I felt so dumb and I dn why..but I was shaking bc I felt really dumb bc I was in the dark and I couldn't figure out how to turn it back on!! So you're probably just scared or nevous and probably not ready to do anything else w.him and you should wait
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Theres somthing wrong up in your head!! Talk to a counseler
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well maybe your nervous or scared....unless your just excited hmmmmmmmm??????
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Hey hunnie..
WElp, I really Don't know what's wrong, but my guess is that you are nervous or scared. It could be a sign of anxiety or another nervous reaction. That's my guess. :-/
WElp...have a wonderful day!
xOXO katestar
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sounds like your not that comfy with wat u are talking about.
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I would have to say this is nerves. It probably makes you nervous which knowing this it should tell you that you aren't ready to go to the next step. It's nothing to worry about but I wouldn't try going to that next step as it seems you aren't ready.
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i have never heard of that. it is probably just your nerves and your emotions. it may mean that you are scared to take the relationship to the next level(sexually). it is probably just becuas royur not ready for that yet. i wouldnt say that it something maor. just wait for now and see if it stops when you are more comfy doing sexual things with him. just let him know that your not ready for that yet. he will understand. and if he is really into you and the relationship, he will respect that.
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I just think you have the case of the nerves thats all! you will be fine, just don't worry about it. it is nothing unusual! good luck!
xoxo,
megan
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your just nervous is all.i know,its happend 2 many people so your not alone
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You seem a little scared about this hole deal. If your not ready hun, it's not a big deal. He should wait till your 100% ready and if he loves you, he'll respect that!
♥ Krissy
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You are scarred, neverous, im betting you dont want this to happan. not now. net yet. not soon. so in that case just wait and tell him you arent ready-trix
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