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Age: 16
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Member Since: January 30, 2005
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Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on? (link)
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your just nervous about taking it to the next level i was the same way with mine.just talk to him and tell him what your feeling and maybe ya can slow it down for a mintue until you feel your ready. its all ok.......
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A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high! (link)
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to start things off you cant help your religion you were brought up that way.and there is nothing wrong with being jewish. people now of days really dont understand other peoples culture. espically if they know nothing about it. they are just finding a way to outcast you bcause your different, thats all. you cant make nobody stop talking about you or thinking that your wierd cause you belive something different but you can explain to them and show them about your religion and what ya do in your culture. and if they dont want to listen at least you tryed and you did a good thing. hope i helped.....
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I want to bring my bf over to my house, but everytime i do, my little sisters (theres 2 of them and theyre 5 and 7) follow me everywhere! Or make kissy faces! This is SOO embarrassing! Ive tried EVERYTHING but nothing works! it hapens with my friends too..any ways i candeceive them or SOMETHING?! (link)
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wow i have the same problem my sister is 7 too and she annoys me,but try and brib them or tell them you will tell mommy or daddy. or take your company to a sacluded place in the house with a lock where they cant get in. or give them a game or toy to keep them occupied. if all else failes kick them out the house
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Well me and my best freind have been freinds since 7th grade and i feel like we are like sisters..well now she wants me to start takin drugs and says if i was her bf i would do it but i dont know what to do (link)
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alright first of all its wrong to do drugs and shes pressureing its called peer pressure and she claims that shes your best friend if she was your best friend she would not make you do something you dont want to do espically drugs. just leave her alone a while or be a good friend and get her some help.....
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My friend has a 15 year old older brother who is having a house party. My friend has invited me and some other people we are friends with to go. I really want to go but if I did then I would have to lie to my parents. The plan is that I would go to my friend's house and tell my parents I was sleeping over then my friend's mother would drop us off at the party, we would tell her that we were just hanging out with our friend. We would go to the party and then my friend's mother would come and pick us up and take us back to her house and I would sleep over at her's. I want to go but I'm scared about my parents finding out because they would kill me. Should I go and risk it, or should I just stay at home and not go? I'm 13/female. (link)
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i understand you want to go to a house party but these are with high schoolers and they will take advantage of younger ones espically if you dont look it so my advice to you is dont go and just hang out with your frinds because if your parents find out they might not ever trust you again even when your 16......
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Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....
1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.
2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people? (link)
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ok number 1 you should have been honest with him because if he founds out that you lied to him then things may go wrong. number 2 he would be able to tell if you dont bleed or scream in pain because every first virgin is having an experience with this and its there first time and you are suppose to feel pain and bleed on top of that. and lastly it all depends on how you two felt about each other beforee you had sex. if you feel differnt then maybe he was the wrong person to have sex with......
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my friend doesn't even know where he wants to go to college. he's a junior in high school and let's just say he's not doing all that well and his GPA is the proof of that. he doesn't seem to care about this school stuff but he's constantly getting stressed out. what should i do to help him in this situation?! or what should happen?! (link)
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well lets see your friend doesnt seem to have a good gpa but there is college out there for everybody. and just tell him that he can still go to college. and if he doesnt want to then everybody isnt made for college. tell hiim to take it easy and hold back some of the things that are going on at the moment because its not good to be stressed out espically trying to worry about school and what to do after high school. beleive me im going through it right now and im only in the 10th grade. just help him to take some extra courses or help him to find some colleges that might accept him because thers a college for everybody.......
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ok im 13 and i want to hang out with my boyfriend out of school but i dont no how to ask them..like im allowed to like go to the movies or the mall with them..but ive never had a guy over or go over his house (with them knowing) how do i get them to let me?
thanks in advance (link)
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ok well i went through the same problem when i was 13 and i still kind of go through it and im almost 16, but what you should do is just apporach them nicley and seemed concerned about it and just reslly be honest with them. just say u want to go out to the movies with your malr friends and just be like im getting to the age where im starting to mature and want to go out with people and even on dates even though your only 13 you can still hang out at the movies wit boys as your friends and just tell them that.make sure that they can trust you. it will all work out for the best.
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I've been going out with this guy for 5 months and i love him and everything... but i think my ex is hot and sometimes i even dream about doing stuff with him (i've dreamed at least 4 times in the past month me and my ex either making out, or having sex) and i love talking to my ex even though i don't like him anymore and my boyfriend kind of gets mad when i talk to him.. but i don't want to end things with my boyfriend.. what should i do? (link)
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ok obviously to your extent you still like him but you have someone at the moment.what i would say u do is have a talk with your current boyfriend and see how he feels about it. if u go behind his back and do something that will make tha situation even worst. so have a talk wit him let him know how you feel. just tell him your having these feelings about him and you dont want to end things wit him. and maybe it will come out for the good.just at the moment think about it and see what you want to do. cause at the end of all of this. you have to make the decision. follow your heart.
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