Question Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 11:19 pm
I've been going out with this guy for 5 months and i love him and everything... but i think my ex is hot and sometimes i even dream about doing stuff with him (i've dreamed at least 4 times in the past month me and my ex either making out, or having sex) and i love talking to my ex even though i don't like him anymore and my boyfriend kind of gets mad when i talk to him.. but i don't want to end things with my boyfriend.. what should i do?
isyss16 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 9:49 am: ok obviously to your extent you still like him but you have someone at the moment.what i would say u do is have a talk with your current boyfriend and see how he feels about it. if u go behind his back and do something that will make tha situation even worst. so have a talk wit him let him know how you feel. just tell him your having these feelings about him and you dont want to end things wit him. and maybe it will come out for the good.just at the moment think about it and see what you want to do. cause at the end of all of this. you have to make the decision. follow your heart. [ isyss16's advice column | Ask isyss16 A Question ]
Link answered Sunday January 30 2005, 2:34 am: Honestly i dont think you are over youe ex maybe ou should break up with ur b/f and go out with ur ex hope i helped [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
Solemnstar answered Sunday January 30 2005, 1:04 am: well if you dont want to hurt him but you dont like him then you should probably just ask to be friends after letting your relationship die down a little and when he starts to notices then tell him about that you dont want to be b/g friends anymore [ Solemnstar's advice column | Ask Solemnstar A Question ]
martita answered Saturday January 29 2005, 11:52 pm: To be undecided is to be decided, and it's not fair to your current love that you're toying with your ex. You may not be over your ex, even if you know it can never work. Be alone for awhile, until you're ready to be emotionally available to a partner. [ martita's advice column | Ask martita A Question ]
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