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Wondering
I'm 14 female. I've never been in a serious relationship. I dated one guy for 3weeks. But that's a long n hairy story. And a girl for 2weeks. I really want a bf or gf, but the one guy i really like doesn't like me(he's the hairy story lol) and the girl i like is taken. Frankly, I'm not the prettiest thing. The only thing i got going for me is big boobs. most my guys friends comment on these daily but i o dont think any of them mean it. i know of one guy who likes me but he's one of my best friends, and i couldnt date him comfortably. i have sorta bad acne and my clothes are very stlyish because of two fat horses who eat our money. how can i make myself more attractive to at least myself. (i run every day at least a mile n do crunches and other ab workouts to loose weight already)
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Well just be your self .. If you find someone that you like then go after them ..
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Hey girl!
I feel bad answering this to be completely honest. I'm sure you're a really nice girl, but I want to help you in the best way I can. I'm going to go ahead and tell you now..I dont mean this as...me being a total "meany" to you. But, the truth is the truth, and I care, and I want to help.
You are 14 years old. I think you have a lot going for you so far. You bisexual, that's fine...but, you put it as if, HEY IM BISEXUAL, give me attention. I think you're striving for attention, and I DO NOT mean this IN A MEAN WAY! I DO NOT...I'm not mean at all.
I think you really need to find yourself, and who you REALLY are. Maybe taking time off away from relationships would be a good thing for you, dear. I think you are pretty, and I've never seen you before. It's finding who you are inside, and seeing youself not only in the inside, but on the outside too...and you have got to do that. When you find who you are on the inside, then you can move to the outside appearance. I think at the age of 14, you are a little rebelious, and that's a good thing, but only to a certain extent.
I want you to do something that I've done for another girl tonight. I want you to look at yourself, and say I'm pretty. But I also want you to look at yourself, and say things out loud, that you like to do. Say things to yourself...talk to yourself. Then ask yourself, am I like this around my friends, or at school?
You're big breast thing, that's fine. Once you get older, which you are very close to becoming more knowledgable to the "high school" world...you'll notice, it's not about a big butt, or huge boobs, it's about your maturity, your actions, and who you are.
You're acne thing, there is a thing called "Cetaphil" you can get at SAMS and Wal-mart...it works REALLY good...let me tell ya, ever since i used it, my monthly blemishes when away.
I Really hope I helped, and I hope you didn't take it the wrong way.
Have a wonderful night, and tell me how that mirror thing goes. If Ya Do It!
<3 KaTeSTar!1011
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