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french kissing
i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!!
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Here's How:
1.Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2.Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3.Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4.Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
5.In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
6.Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
7.Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
8.If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9.As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10.Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Hope I helped tell me again if you need help on only thing else.
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just go with the flow! let him start!
<3sirisha
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Hey darlin*
This is a very cute question. Hehe, Well...For me, I've only french kissed one person and I'm only 19 years old. We do it all the time now, because we're engaged, but each time we try something new, ya know?
When we kiss, we tilt our heads, so you're tounge doesn't go to the top or the bottom really. When you both stick it in there, you just find a place, and get into it. Taking your toungue both in and out. And when you do it, kinda have this tounge rolling thing going with it.
If you really wanna get into it, take your tounge and go on the inside of his lips...he will love that.
I can't tell tell you anything else, because it's an experiance kinda situation. (Like sex) ya know?
Welp, tell me how it goes! :-)
Have a wonderful DaY!
<3 KaTie Bug!
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Its not stupid at all! The first time I knew I was going to be french kissed was at a party and I wish I was more prepared but there wasnt much time I guess! I was 13 - enough said. Well, the first thing that helped me was to first, calm down. Take a deep breath and just look at it as something like math or anything you can learn and learn from your mistakes. I dont have a boyfriend right now, but when I kiss a boy, it just feels natural. You'll see when you first kiss someone - its almost like you've dont it before. Freaky, right? Okay, usually the guy makes the "first move" by leaning his face into yours. Pretty simple! Then, you just softly kiss and play around with your tongue - its really not hard as it may look or seem. Just play with it! Move it around. It doesn't really matter whos tongue goes on the top or bottom since it will switch up pretty quickly. Another thing is just have fun! Dont expect it to be perfect or extremely romantic your first time. You might laugh in the middle or y'all might bump heads! But thats ok =) ♥ Laura
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heh...oh french kissing. french kissing is really great and since you're doing it with your boyfriend, you should be comfortable enough to try new things with him and experiment. sooooo...french kissing isn't that hard:
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional....BUT, Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other person's mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other person's mouth and playfully touch their tongue.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing, but it's your boyfriend, so don't worry. :)
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
Be light, gentle, and sensual. If you are aggressive, be elegant about it, not clumsy-don't drill your way through.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing!!!!!!
luv, SARAH
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