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french kissing
i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!!
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Oh this is the question everyone wants to know. How do i kiss? How can i kiss better? I'll do my best to answer. ha ha
Well first above anything you need to relax, this guy doesn't wanna kiss a stiff log. Take a deep breath, quietly of course. Then put your lips to his. Now the first kiss should be a regular old kiss. The second is when you really get down to buisness!
When you go to kiss him open up your mouth a little bit. DON'T open your mouth so wide your drooling and look like your trying to inhale his face. Then try to open his mouth a little with the tip of your tongue. DON'T be to aggresive! Your not trying to force his mouth open with a screwdriver. Do this gently. If he opens his mouth than he's ready for a french kiss. If he doesn't then you should back off, he isn't ready for that yet.
Ok so he's got his mouth open, and you've got yours open, what next !? Well very softly put your tongue in his mouth. With your tongue try to touch his, and softly go back and forth a little lightly rubbing his tongue. DON'T do this realy hard, and DON'T stick your tongue in and out of his mouth like a lizard! Yuck, i hate that. ha ha. Another thing you have to remember to do is swallow. When you kiss someone sometimes you get a lot of spit in your mouth, and you DON'T wanna say "hold on a minute whhile i spit" so just swallow it.
Now hopefully he is going to try and do the same thing with his tongue, if he does stay calm. Just let him touch your tongue with his. Now when he does this you can keep moving your tongue back and forth up and down, again just make sure you are really gentle.
Whenever you feel like you have had enough start to pull away, then when he closes his mouth a little give him a quik peck on the lips to end it!
And thats it! Remember though, there is no one way to kiss. I wish there were! But everyone is diffrent. The best thing to do is relax, breath and try not to get to upset if he can't kiss well! Boys seem to take a little longer when it comes to figuring these things out! HA ha ha
Good Luck!
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No that's not stupid at all! I mean, that's what this site is for afterall! Anyways, just follow what the other person does, and you'll know just what to do. ;) everybody's different, so i can't really tell you exactly what to do. lol I hoped I helped! Good luck -Riley
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Ok, wow. I'm actually the worst person to ask .. I think the furthest I've gone is a hug.. dude. Ok, I'll give it my best shot ... I don't know how to do it either, but I don't think there's a specific way. I think it's mostly a 'trial and error', 'touch and go' sortof thing. I'm assuming that you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each other's mouths, but I'd let the guy lead. I would also assume that the guy's tounge would go on top or on bottom.. it depends on where he puts it. ;) If you're ready, let your boyfriend lead, and.. just 'go'. Don't do anything you'll later regret, though. Sorry I couldn't help more.
-FunnyCide
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