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anyone have any birthday ideas for a boyfriend? (link)
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make him dinner and a cake. go to his house the night before and write happy birthday in chalk on his sidewalk. once, i gave my bf a fish for a present, lol. u could make him a picture frame and put a cute pic of you in it.
luv, SARAH
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How can a complete loser beat a complete winner? (link)
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They can't. You're just really confused and your loser qualities have clouded your thoughts and made you think you beat the complete winner, which you didnt. The complete winner will ALWAYS outsmart you and in the end, you will end up the total and complete loser you have always been, but with added idiotic traits and loserish qualities.
luv, SARAH
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How can I tell someone I like them without actually saying anything? (link)
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spend a lot of time with them, talking to them on the phone helps a lot, going out to a movie or dinner alone is good, treating them differently than you treat other people and differently than other people treat them shows you are different, talk to them a lot while smiling and flirting, write notes. you could just tell them you like them and ask them on a date-that might work. ur cute, give it a try.
luv, SARAH
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Can anyone explain to me why when I put my headphones on after I take a shower, why my ears would bother me that night or later that day? I think it's because of the wetness in my ear, but please answer anyway! Thanks. (link)
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i bet if you put some rubbing alcohol in your ears or the swim ear in a bottle in your ears and let that evaporate all the water out, you wouldnt have a problem. if your headphones are the little ones that fit in your ear, then those might just cause irritation if you leave them in for a while. And, in my opinion i dont think those should be left in ears for too long.
luv, SARAH
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Hey-
What are coned shaped condoms and why do people write raps when they don't even remember or know what they are doing? Please answer this as fast as you can!!! (link)
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they arent cone shaped...theyre shell shaped and only losers have them. people write raps when they don't even remember or know what theyre doing because they are really really high and also losers.
luv, SARAH
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How do I get rid of my writers' block? (link)
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get away from what you are attempting to write, and go do something totally different. hang out with friends, watch a movie, go jogging, take a nap, or go eat dinner with friends or family. just get your mind completely off the subject with the intentions of coming back to it later. your subconscious will think about it for you and it'll come to you a lot easier later.
luv, SARAH
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i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
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heh...oh french kissing. french kissing is really great and since you're doing it with your boyfriend, you should be comfortable enough to try new things with him and experiment. sooooo...french kissing isn't that hard:
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional....BUT, Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other person's mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other person's mouth and playfully touch their tongue.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing, but it's your boyfriend, so don't worry. :)
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
Be light, gentle, and sensual. If you are aggressive, be elegant about it, not clumsy-don't drill your way through.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing!!!!!!
luv, SARAH
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Sarah-
I am a loser. Why is this? (link)
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You aren't a loser. I love you. I'm your friend...and that's enough to make anyone faaaarrrr from a loser. :)...so cheer up, be happy, and i'll come play pool with u. love you dan the man!
luv, SARAH
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what are some good products for me to use to have the little hairs on my forehead and upper lip go away? i dont want a product that will have my hair grow back thicker, because that will be embarassing. i want a product that will have the little hairs removed quickly and wont come back for a while AND not grow back a lot thicker than before
thanx !!!
ps im not going to a doctor or whatever, lol sorry (link)
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if you are worried about how dark they are, you can bleach them. that makes them very unnoticable. sally hansen makes great facial products that are gentle and effective. if theyre light, but just bother the heck out of you, wax them. waxing usually makes the hairs thinner and even not grow back after a while. also, waxing lasts quite a while. but, give the sally hansen facial bleach a try. it wont alter the color or thickness permanently and it may just work great for you.
luv, SARAH
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Can anyone tell me what a hemeroid is and what it looks like? Also, how do u get one? Thanks.. (link)
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A hemorrhoid is actually a form of vericose vein. The veins in and around the rectum and anus become swollen. The two forms of hemorrhoids are internal and external.
Symptoms of hemorrhoids include:
Anal itching
Bleeding during bowel movements (often bright red on the paper or outside of the stool)
Pain
Protrusion during bowel movements
Sensitive lumps around the anus
A variety of reasons may contribute to the development of hemorrhoids. Some of these include:
Age
Chronic constipation
Chronic diarrhea
Pregnancy
Straining during bowel movements
Overuse of laxatives
See Also:
http://www.pphinfo.com/faqs.html
luv, SARAH
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Well here is the thing. my aunt has what they call Night Terrors. they are like nightmares. Well her husband, my uncle, Doesnt get home from work untill midnight. And my auntjust had a baby. And the doctor said to get more rest. Well she cant get more rest. Because she stays up untill my uncle gets home!!! Please help me on this one!!!!!!! please tell me what my aunt can do!!! Please!!! HELP ME!!!!!
~Karly~ (link)
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I'm not sure what youre asking...does she need help because she doesnt want to have night terrors while she and the baby are the only ones there or does she need someone to help her out and take care of the baby while ur uncle is gone? I'm going to assume shes concerned with the night terrors...so here goes: Fatigue and psychological stress plays a major role in the occurence of night terrors, so her not getting enough sleep actually adds to the recurrences. Stress also provokes incidences...if she knos exactly about what time they happen (like, one hour after she falls asleep, or two hours)...she can set her alarm for thirty min. before it usually happens, then stay awake for about five min. and then go back to sleep...this will help subdue the night terrors. i guess if shes desperate, she can just sleep for a little while, wake up, then go back to sleep again. there are also medications that can help.
luv, SARAH
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i juss bouqht nair lotion remover thinq and im not sure if its qonna be qood.. on the back of the bottle it said stuff for like the leqs.. the bikini area and stuff but i wanted to use it for my face.. do you think its qonna work for ma face? and when the hair qrows back.. is it qoinq to be thicker.. one LAST question.. sorry ! how lonq will the hair qrow back?? (link)
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dont use that on your face. there are special facial hair removers. there is also facial hair bleach that will make the hair practically unnoticable and you wont have to worry about it growing back coarse. this is good for hair on the upper lip. im not exactly sure what you are trying to remove, but chances are, u need a product designed specially for your face. itll work a lot better and be less harsh and irritating. the hair may grow back thicker and darker, so bleaching may be the best way to go. a good brand for facial bleaches and facial hair removers is sally hansen. its really gentle and works really well.
luv, SARAH
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Ok.. im goin to be a godmother... and... i have no clue what to wear!! its in the middle of may and the baptisim is gonna be in Atlanta Georgia! i am 13 years old.. almost 14.
Thanks! (link)
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u should wear a nice dress. one that is slightly below knee length, is not low cut, no midriff showing, and isnt strappy (if it has straps, cover them up with a sweater). a nice summer dress would look fine. think...proper afternoon tea. also, loud, flamboyant colors arent the best thing to wear...neither is black.
luv, SARAH
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yeah i am going through confirmation and like i have to look for a cute dress and well it can't be sleeveless. anyone have any places or anything that would have something cute? thanks! (link)
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to broaden your options, you could wear a sweater over a dress you find that may not have exactly what youre looking for. and, you could also go with a black skirt and white blouse. bealls, dillards, other department stores are starting to bring out their summer dresses. some of those may be appropriate. just look for dresses with lengths below the knee, no low cut tops, wear a sweater over straps. browse your local mall and good luck!
luv, SARAH
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does anyone know how to get rid of razor burn on legs?.. if anyone has had it how long does it take for it to go away? (link)
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there are many products made just for razor burn if lotion doesnt seem to work for you or it is irritating in itself. but, first off, make sure you are using a really good shaving cream or shave gel. actually for me, i find the cheap shaving cream thats 88 cents works the best...lol. make sure your razor blade isnt ever dull. there are tons of post-shaving products made to prevent skin inflamation. there are post shave moisturizers and also after shave gels and lotions. if you apply these to razor burn, itll help heal the skin. you could also try aloe that has a low content of alcohol in it.
luv, SARAH
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Hey, im the girl that asked about the whole guy not being in love with me thing. Thank you so much for your advice, he called me yesterday saying that he really did love me and he was sorry and so on. Thanks so much though i luv u! (link)
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aww, i luv u too!!! and im glad its looking better for ya
luv, SARAH
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Does anyone know where I can get some good quality (preferably with an underwire), but inexpensive bras? (like under $20) (link)
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Bealls too, and sometimes regular department stores (jcpenny, foleys, dillards) will have sales..just look in the paper.
luv, SARAH
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There's no way in explaining what happened without using a lot of words, so I apologize. I'm 16 and female by the way. I just don't want the people that read this and give me advice to get the wrong idea about things. I've been with this guy for almost 6 months, and recently he told me he doesn't feel the love anymore and that he wants to break up. Me, being stupid, begged him to stay with me. He said that he wanted to take a break to see if he missed me and such. Throughout our whole relationship he was so loving to me and we've both cried over eachother a lot. He's being completely contradictive right now like after he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, a day later he said he still loves me just not as much as he used to. The other day he said in the really pleading voice..."lay with me before you leave baby..please?"..and he cried when he told me he didn't wanna be with me so what the hell is he thinking? I have no idea whether he's just lying to me or if he really wants to work it out in the future. I talked to one of our mutual friends and she said he's afraid to break up with me cause he doesn't wanna hurt me but a few people say that we've just spent too much time together and he needs a break to really feel the love again. We were with eachother almost every day for the past 6 months...I don't know. Someone help me. I know he's good at heart..he really is and I didn't want anyone thinking he was an asshole for what he said. (link)
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Aww, that pretty much happened to me. Ya'll really need to 'take a break', but that break may become permanent. He's probably just really confused or feels hes wanting something different. If he really, truly loves you, then ya'll will end up together. For now, just let him try out the break thing and you be strong. Remember, there are other guys out there that are as sweet and handsome as can be and this isnt the end of the world. i know youre hurting and you dont understand everything thats going on, but time will make it better. just please dont drag it out and painfully hold on like i did when i shouldve just let go in the first place. but, for you it may be different and like you said, if its meant to be, it'll work out. just follow your heart and hope he'll follow his. itll all work out...if not now then later under much different circumstances.
luv, SARAH
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About since September, whenever I get my period the first and second day it comes down REALLY bad. So bad it's to the point I have to change my tampon (the super one) every half an hour so it doesn't go through my pants. I've been getting really horrible cramps and extreamly moody and emotional. My mom always tells me that I have to try to deal with it but it's getting out of hand. I can't take this anymore! I might see a doctor soon about but I need to know if there is anything that my doctor might prescribe me so that my period isn't so much of a hassle, or if anyone is like me and how they've dealt with it. Thanks so much if you can help me out! (link)
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Going to the doctor is the best thing you can do. Your doctor will probably ask you a lot of questions about a lot of details and you need to answer them all very accurately. You may just need birth control pills. They help to regulate your hormone levels and keep your cycle as normal as it gets. Your doctor will also probably want to check for a cyst. Theyre more common than you think and if you have one, you'll have really bad cramps and moodiness. But, those are very treatable and once its gone, if you have one, youd feel 100 percent better. My bestfriend had a cyst. She even named it. lol But, yea, your doctor will take care of anything that may be wrong and i'm sure you'll feel a lot better soon after that.
luv, SARAH
btw, she named it Pepito because she seriously thought she was harboring the spawn of satan in her body-it was hurting pretty bad. heh
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hello all,
I am the ten year (idiot)well thats what I call myself! since all of your advice I have found myself sleeping with him again and feeling like things will get better, I have not moved back in with him becaise I litiraly cannot afford it, and that would make everything even worse!!!but I have been off work as im sure you can imagine I need time to think, But is it not strange that every night I cant get hold of him?? i know he is with another woman am I just thick???
Today is different I am going to stay away from him because I know he is a liar and a cheat I cannot afford to be dragged back in , how the hell do i keep strong and sane in the process????
23 london, going insane ! female (link)
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I have the best book for you! It's called 'ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives' by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. It's not a self-help book, i strongly dislike those; it's a wonderful book that changes your whole current perspective on relationships. It would tremendously help you like it has helped me and the best way to get through to you what i'd like to say is really all found in this one little fantastic book. It really is extraordinary. Anyways, i think you should put this guy behind you. This is very unhealthy relationship that you are better than. Don't just SAY you are going to stay away from him. So many women SAY they are going to stay away from the awful man theyre with, but the problem with this is that they end up saying this forty million times, and it never changes. Break away from your disrespectful, low-down lover and try self-accomplishment and core fulfillment. You are taking the 'female escape route', a term i picked up through the book mentioned above, and you are basically avoiding becoming an individual through attachment to this male counterpart. And, its taking you down with it. Don't let him pull you back in; don't let him pull the wool over your eyes. Don't let him disrespect you, lie to you, treat you like youre good for nothing, and especially treat you like youre just any other woman. Get out of the mess youre stuck in, clean yourself up, and go dance in the flowery meadow. heh, don't settle for less than what YOU deserve.
luv, SARAH
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