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i know this is gunna sound horrible
k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??
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well if u were a good friend no matter how much u liked him u wouldnt do that....thats not right and if i was her i wuld dump him and stop talkin to u!! u should seriously tell her wut u did...
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whos it gunna be boy or friend ..... it better be the friend cuz honey there r millions of guz but only so many friends tell him u cant do that to ur friend than talk 2 ur friend bout it. tell her u dont kno what u were thinkin and that he is a butt hole. or other terms tell her the TRUTH.
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YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THAT UNLESS HE IS GUNNA BREAK UP WITH YOUR FRIEND THEN THERE CANT BE ANYTHING BETWEEN YOU GUYS. YOU CANT KEEP GOING BEHIND YOUR FRIENDS BACK AND DOING THAT TO HER. THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN GO OUT WITH HIM IS IOF HE IS SINGLE. BUT HOWEVER KEEP THIS IN MIND, IF HE DID THAT TO YOUR FRIEND THEN CHANCES ARE HE WILL PROBABLY DO THAT TO YOU TOO!
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thats.. just wrong.. if you were a real "friend" you would never like your friends boyfriend.. and would never have made out with him! what a great friend you are.. you need to tell her.. and if she doesn't ever talk to her again i don't blame her!
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hmmm-- this is hard...well i think you should tell your friend how you feel about him...but dont make it sound mean or anything :-) and then work out a situation from there. maybe she likes someone else...or you could find someone else or just fly solo for a while...but i think you should tell your friend the complete truth and how you feel if you dont want this to end in a total mess! much love,
becca <3
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cHicKs bEfOrE dIcKs hUnNy! i know it might be hard: but think about it in the long run... guys are not always gonna be there especally when they have girlfriends... but friends can last 4ever! u dont have 2 tell ur friend about it... even though the guilt would be unbearable for me... but leave at at whats already happened....! find ur self another guy! i kno ya can!
xOxO, aLeX
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wow.. ur a bad friend.. sorry ! but honostly.. if my friend ever made out with my bf.. i would feel so ultimitally hurt ! but leave the boy alone until they atleast break up ! sorry if i hurt your feelinqs.. but i qotta speak the truth
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I hate to say it, but your probally going to have to end the "relationship" with this guy and tell your best friend about it. If you don't tell her and she finds out then she'll be a lot madder!! Good luck, sweetie!
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well obviously you dont give a flying fuck about your friend or her feelings if you did that to her. no friend should ever do that to another.. good you should feel guilty.. i think you should tell you friend when she gets back .. and let her dump that fuckers ass for cheat on her with her so called "friend" and then go find someone worth being friends with...
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hes your FRIENDS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!! that means stay away, off limits, never touch w/ out permission from her!!!!, like no joke, you have to tell her, and if you dont she will find out eventually, and it will hurt your friendship even more!
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your gonna have to tell your friend. if you try keeping it from her, one way or another she's going to find out, and then she'll be even more mad then if you would have just told her in the first place. so i'd sit her down and tell her what happened, and how you feel, and just talk it out. hopefully she won't get to mad, and if she's a good friend..she'll Eventually forgive you..but she's prob. gonna be mad at first, but you'll just have to let her cool off. and as for the boy..if he cheated on your friend..then chances are he'd cheat on you too! so i'd just try to get over him..you deserve better. if you have any more questions ask! hope i helped*xoxo.
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Oh my gawh...* i thinkk u shuldnt date him. he's ur bestfriends BOYFRIEND!!!**
bad idea
i wuldn't do it
gooD lUCk!
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that's really low but if i were you i would rather have the friend. Keep distance from the boy.If you pick the boy you'll just get hurt be him. Think about it he will probably do you how he did your friend.
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I don't mean to judge you but that's low. Making out with your friend's boyfriend? What kind of friend does that make you? Aside from that, my advice would be to put some distance between that boy and you. You don't want to hurt their relationship, right?
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well .. first of all that's really low and just don't count on her being your friend anymore .. or at least for a while - but i mean u lost a friend but if he likes you i don't think it matters b.c she's not ur friend so it doesnt matter
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Well here is the thing you could have the boy or lose the friend. I would keep the friend. Your heart will be broken by the boy
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BACK OFF BUDDY!!! Thats called cheating. Ur cheating on ur friend and ur cheatin on him. Let him decide what he wants..ur friend should know the truth baout her bf and that he makes out with her friends (U). What an ass...leave it alone there are other fish in the sea.
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Okay, I think you really need to talk to your friend. First off, her boyfriend is nothing but scum if he makes out with one of her friends and hes just sucking you into his little mind games so you need to tell her so that she no longer has to waist her time with him. Of course shes gonna be mad at you but its for the best. And dont worry, after awhile she'll realize that even tho you did go behind her back & hook up with her boyfriend you were also trying to protect her from getting hurt..and thats why you told her.
Hope I Helped!
Ciara
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first off you are not a good friend if you do something like that.. two he is a low life if he cheats on his girl with her best friend. whats to say he wont do it with another on you.
Three you need to take spelling lessons. and four
how immature are you...
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if your truly this girls friend you should respect her and her if you made out with her boyfriend you don't sound like much of a friend to me.sorry if ya don't like my advice I tell the truth
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First oh all not to be mean but ur not a real friend..if u can't control urself enough until he breks up with her ur crazy. second of all if he is cheating on her what makes u think if u got with him he wouldn't cheat on u ? U need to tell her..and u need to stop until they are completely over !! Sorry so harsh babe but its soo true !! Hope i helped and Good Luck !
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well make sure that hes not just using u. cuz its a little weird that his gf is now outa town. but just wait to see how things go when she comes back..good luck
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Wow, this just happened to two of my friends and you really need to dump him. I'm sorry I know you've had fun with him, but trust me, one way or another your friend will find out and she might hate you for the rest of her life because that is her bf and not only will she not have a friend she can trust but she won't have a bf she can trust either. Tell him you can't do that anymore until your friend and him are broken up because it isn't right. Sorry, but this is true! -Kayla
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