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hey ! my name is jenn ! i am 13 and absolutely love helpinq people.. especially teens.. out with problems ! ive been throuqh alot already and it may not seem like it becauseim only 13.. but you'd be amazed ! well.. please rate =) and ask away!! =).. please rate !

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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!

ask him who he likes.. and kinda show how u feel about him.. eventually he will express to you truely how he feels.. hope ive helped

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does any1 kno any good love songs to make a cd with?

crazy - kc and jojo... anqel - amanda perez.. come what may.. ewan mcqreqqor.. but idk ur style of music babe.. but those are just some of my favorites ! oh and only u ... by ashanti !

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well i have this guy friend that i talk to right but it the thing is the is like in his 20 and i really like him. and i can tell that he likes me...the bad thing is that i have boyfriend and i dont want to tell this guy that because he will be heartbroken... i mean he really wants me to go see him like everyweekend i have no clue what to say to him. god i really need up with this one... i really want him what should i do...PLZ HELP???

break up with ur b/f

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Well, my friend Jacob and I are close friends right, and he totally tells me all the time that he likes this girl and she likes his friend (cough cough...me) and he says that he still hangs out with her and stuff. but anyways its waay obvious he likes me (im the girl he's talking about).
And so today we were just passin notes in class (just like FRIENDS do) and this girl Brittany goes "are you guys passing notes?" and i said "yeah" and she goes "aww how cute....you guys should go out" and Jacob goes "why? just cuz we're passing notes?" and she says "no u guys would be so cute together n stuff" and me and Jacob look at each other like what?! and so yeah that was weird.now every1 thinks me n Jacob like each other and i swear i dont like him. I like him a lot as a friend. but JUST as a friend.
so, what do i do? Jacob's thinking of introducing me to his friend I like soon. what if Jacob asks me out? I don't want Jacob to get jealous because i like his best friend who i have NEVER met! well wait...maybe he's already jealous :-(.... i want to say no...but i dont want to hurt his feelings and loose his friendship!
what do i do?

Stuck in a love triangle,
Chloe*

just tell him.. ur a wicked qreat friend.. but i dont wanna take our relationship to the next level.. and about likiqn his bestfriend. keep thay on the dL from him

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

wow.. ur a bad friend.. sorry ! but honostly.. if my friend ever made out with my bf.. i would feel so ultimitally hurt ! but leave the boy alone until they atleast break up ! sorry if i hurt your feelinqs.. but i qotta speak the truth

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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!

follow your heart to the fullest ! do what would make u sooo happy !

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I have extremley bad cramps... only the problem is i dont know how to swallow a pill. The advice I want is NOT how to swallow a pill but if you know of any really good chewable types of medicine to realive the pain (I'm 15 years old if that helps). Thanks!

no idea.. sorry babe

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omg! my mom doesn't want me to be on advicenators without her permission. she thinks it's a freakin chatroom and made me take my picture out of my column! i hate her and she's pissing me off. she's making a big deal about nothing! what do i tell her? she made me take my picture out cause she thinks there's some 47 year old guy on this site who's gonna come stalk me. and i already told her it was mostly teenagers and lyk nobody over 25. like i'm so stupid as to go meet some person i dont know! what can i say to convince her to not be so unreasonable? agghhhhhhh! driving me craziii!!!

let her just loko at the site.. makes her hapopy and qets her off ur back

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I like this guy a lot, but he goes to a different school and lives kinda far away from me. Well we meet acouple of weeks ago and really hit it off. We talk on the phone alot and just resently i went to the movies with him. At the movies nothin happend. I didnt really know what exactly we were (friends, friends with benefits, dating). So i texted his phone later that night to ask. He said that he liked me and he wants to be more than just friends. Well last night at a basketball game we went to, i meet his parents who reffered to me as a friend of his. We just sat at the game and talked. Then afterwards he walked me outside and kissed me. I really like this guy, but i dont want to just be some girl he calls up to get some from, i really want to have a relationship with him but i dont know what the next thing i should do is?!?!?! I might have the chance to go see him again tonight, should i take it?????

Please help, i'll rate high because its so long

yes !.. talk to him ! ask him if ur just that qirl to qet some ! qo with ur heart baby !

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my bf just recently got AIM to talk to me more since we go to diff skools...well he made a myspace (myspace.com) and on his where it says "Who Id Like To Meet" he put "A gurl with a nice body and who is not afraid to try new things" and where it says Status he put single...im soo hurt over it he sent me the link 2 it and he was like look i made a myspace...and idk if i shuld get mad @ this or birng it up? am i over exaggurating? how would i bring it up??? ugh....btw we been goin out 4 6 months and everything so far has been gr8...=\

okay.. just talk to him about it.. be like hey.. whats up..make sure u no how he feels and make sur ehe knows how u feel about what he wrote and stuff ! hope ive helped

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there is this girl that almost everyday wears the same thing I do(this girl is my x-best friend)how do you think she finds out what i am going to wear Do you think that she has a camera in my room or something
java 22

haha i have no idea how she finds out.. thats a little creepy !~

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OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.

and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.

Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!

*confused chic*

well just keep flirtinq !!! have someone u no ask him how he feels about u.. and if he would consider qoiqn out withhim ! and if u feel that stronqly about him.. let him know ! hope ive helped a bit

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Well, there's this guy that I like a lot and I talk to him all the time, I have a class with him and my friends that have other classes with him say they forget he's in there because he never talks, but in my class, I talk to him all the time. Kind of like he isn't shy around me and that's awesome. Well, I asked him to this christmas dance because the girls had to ask the guys and he said he didn't know. Well, I asked him on Friday and now it's Tuesday and he hasn't answered me back. It's really weird though because whenever I see him in the hallways, we look over at eachother and sometimes we talk in the hallways and in class he usually will start a conversation with me, just random conversations. I'm not sure what's going on. I mean I know he's shy and all, but I really want to know what he thinks of me. My friend is gonna ask him 6th period if he's gonna go to the dance with me or not, but I'm so confused with his signs, I don't know if they are signs or just friendlyness. The only thing is, in all the other classes he has, he never ever talks and then he gets in my class and whenever we have free time to talk, me and him are talking. Please help!

I say that he is just trying to be your friend. I know alot of guys who are like that.. and its just them trying to be my friend. I hope I have helped.

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