Well, there's this guy that I like a lot and I talk to him all the time, I have a class with him and my friends that have other classes with him say they forget he's in there because he never talks, but in my class, I talk to him all the time. Kind of like he isn't shy around me and that's awesome. Well, I asked him to this christmas dance because the girls had to ask the guys and he said he didn't know. Well, I asked him on Friday and now it's Tuesday and he hasn't answered me back. It's really weird though because whenever I see him in the hallways, we look over at eachother and sometimes we talk in the hallways and in class he usually will start a conversation with me, just random conversations. I'm not sure what's going on. I mean I know he's shy and all, but I really want to know what he thinks of me. My friend is gonna ask him 6th period if he's gonna go to the dance with me or not, but I'm so confused with his signs, I don't know if they are signs or just friendlyness. The only thing is, in all the other classes he has, he never ever talks and then he gets in my class and whenever we have free time to talk, me and him are talking. Please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Jillybean answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 1:46 pm: Well. it sounds like this guy is really sweet, and im glad you asked him to the dance thing! but maybe his friendlyness might be because he just wants to be your friend and not your boyfriend, and so he's confused why you asked him to the dance. just go up to him and ask him if he just wants to be your friend or more. hopefully he'll say more, but if he says just friends than be his friend, and maybe he'll gorw on you!!
ask_the_becsturr answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 8:58 am: if what you're saying is true about him not talking in otehr classes he may just be shy. chances are he really likes you but doesnt wnat to go to the dance in fear of making a fool of himself because he doesnt know how to dance and whatnot. just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. and if he dosent go to the dance u should go anyways. get your self a hott little dress and go with friends you're garunteed to have a fab time and who knows...i'll bet there are some cute guys who ended up going stag to the dance too. [ ask_the_becsturr's advice column | Ask ask_the_becsturr A Question ]
jennybear_ox answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 4:27 pm: I say that he is just trying to be your friend. I know alot of guys who are like that.. and its just them trying to be my friend. I hope I have helped. [ jennybear_ox's advice column | Ask jennybear_ox A Question ]
Shandiebaby11 answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 11:27 am: Guys are shy..well until a certain age that is.. Just give him time ! He may think that it is bad to like talk to gurls hat his buddies will make fun of him ! I'm sure if he talks to u alot though hes crushing on u he is just afraid to admit it but just be like forward with him/..Walk up and say listen i really badly wanna go to the dance with u so give me an answer yes or no ? Say because if u can't go wih me i may not even go at all ! That will get his attention and if he still doesn't answer pick someone to go with and make him jealous believe me he will come around been there done that gurl !!! :) Hope i helped! [ Shandiebaby11's advice column | Ask Shandiebaby11 A Question ]
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