Member Since: November 24, 2004
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Last Update: November 24, 2004
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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do?? (link)
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whos it gunna be boy or friend ..... it better be the friend cuz honey there r millions of guz but only so many friends tell him u cant do that to ur friend than talk 2 ur friend bout it. tell her u dont kno what u were thinkin and that he is a butt hole. or other terms tell her the TRUTH.
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my best friends sister just got diagnosed w/ cancer! my closest cuzin just died last year of cancer. i always talked to her about my cuzin and now i totttally regret it cuz i really dont want her sister to die!! her sis is 18 and she soooo nice. the bad thing is that my best freind and i are 13 and its that time when ur family treats u like ur garbage. and her sister is teh only one who was nice to her and always there for her. thats y i feel sooo bad. and ive been comforting her but evrytime i do i hafta stop cuz i get teary eyed cuz i think of my cuzin. and then she gets teary eyed and i just dk wut im supposed to do.
signed ~teary eyed 1~
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the only thang u can do is be there for her. U can cry its alright, tell her u have been throught the same thing and u know how it feels tell her whatever happens that she (her sister) is in gods hands , he knows what is right.
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ok well heres the situation i liek this kid n hes on the same sports team as me but i juss dont kno how 2 exactly get him 2 notice me liek as more then a friend cus i realli liek him n i woudl realli like us 2 go out or atleast become realli good friends n yea but my 1 friend thinks i shoudl ask him 2 come bowlin w. a group of us but idk cus then i dont realli want him 2 kinda kno i like him if he doesnt like m bac cus then it'd bb awkward if he doesnt n i dont want it 2 b also a lot of grlks liek him n tahts anotehr reaosn i dont wanna juss come out n b liek yea i liek u n crap cus i dont realli think id have a realli good chance cus of all the ppl that liek him so yea. i neeed usm things 2 talk about n stuff i hope u can help me cus i realli need it! ty if u can!!!! (link)
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I cant read ur writing sry, u need to type better than ask me ( not in a mean way)
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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.
1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard
2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)
3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.
Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long. (link)
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You cant say anything but the truth
Take her out, watch a movie. Gdo fun things in your area. The tell her how u feel, Tell her there is nothing to worry about. shes in gods hands and he knows what is right. Tjhen tell her that ur worried about her. you know tell her what u really feel.
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