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6th Grade


Question Posted Thursday August 12 2004, 11:00 am

ok, i dont know exactly how to get a reputaion of sum kind in 6th grade. I have a popular friend that i dont usualy hang out with. should i start hanging out with her in order to get kool. or not?

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Additional info, added Thursday August 12 2004, 11:14 am:
we have been friends sence we were born so im not using her because im her friend.

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xChainMeUp13x answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:18 am:
who cares about reps? u should be ureself, hang out wit who wanna hang out wit, listen to music u wanna listen to, dress how u wanna dress, act how u wanna act, u dont need a "good rep" to be cool... just be ureself
hope i helped
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Lena answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:30 am:
go for it if you want to be popular... <3have fun!

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Elementskater594 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:26 pm:
if you want to be considered more popular than u should def start hanging out w| your popular friend. good luck w| your reputation and if you have any more questions put in in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca

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OrangeLuverr answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:08 pm:
It doesnt make sence to change urself for other people, just be urself and then u'll make friends that like you for you, and u'll be resepcted a lot more then the fake "popular" people.

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 8:17 pm:
well your in 6th grade so i wouldnt worry about having a reputation yet.. live your life be happy for you are and stick with the people you normally hang out with.

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yayitsjordie answered Thursday August 12 2004, 6:53 pm:
Your only in 6th grade so you dont really have to worry about that yet because once you get into highschool you will realize there arent really popular people. There are different groups like the smart people, the goths, the nerds, the skaters, the hicks, and what not and then im in the preps but just be friends with whoever u like and have ur own style and ur rep will come to u, dont plan it

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blue_mist808 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:24 pm:
aw i was in that boat in 6th grade haha. so you wanna be more popular? usually to do that you just like be yourself and maybe go outside of your comfort zone a lil and talk to people you usually wouldn't. maybe go out more and do some of the stuff that a lot of the other kids are doing. hope that helps! <333

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sunny answered Thursday August 12 2004, 12:23 pm:
well you should hang out with all your friends even if they are not populare but if u truly wanna be populare then having a populare friend wont help you need to be friends with like everyone but really being populare isnt that good because then theres ppl that hate u just because u r populare.so if i were u i would just try to make as many friends as posible and keep all your old friends.just have fun and be yourself.GOOD LUCK

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:56 am:
ok, i'm going into highschool, so i've been in sixth grade. being popular is like the most stupid thing in sixth grade, because like 10% of people like you and the rest think you're either a hooker or just an ass. and by seventh grade, no one cares anymore. Dating in sixth grade is really stupid too, like its "i have a boyfriend!" "What's his name?" "Oh I don't know, but I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!"

so basically, being popular is stupid. hang with the friends you like, and not some kinda close friend just because she's popular.

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kenzie30721 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:54 am:
so you want to be cool, and thats all, i would say just be yourself but i understnad its more than "just being yourself..even though thats the way it should be. If your popular friend is cool then yes hang out with her! DO NOT change yourself thou! i mean yea be you but of course you cna change the way you dress or how you do your hair. Its life and sometime life can be cruel but you will be cool to any of your friends, but if the "cool crowd" doesnt accept you as you(which they will) the dont worry about them!

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Derailed_x_Dream answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:49 am:
well since shes popular...hang out wit her nd her frends jus start talkni to them ull b a popular one soon..but 6th grade u dunt have to worry about it..ur still young

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OnErOxYcHiCkEz answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:33 am:
well, since your friend is popular, and if you wanted to become popular, then you should hang out with her a lot and talk with her friends and go all hang out and stuff...

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ballerina04 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:18 am:
don't hang out with someone just to become popular. you don't need to be popular, it's not important. just be yourself and make new friends. but don't use her to gain a social status.

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HAYBABY104 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:16 am:
NO! definitely not! dont ever hang out with someone to get popular or "cool" that's very "uncool" hang out with your usual friends. you dont need a reputation.. there is plenty of time for that in highschool

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Fall_in_love_once answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:14 am:
NO! if thats the reason your hangin out with her.. thats insane! but if you really like hanging out with her then sure..... POPULARITY ISNT ANYTHING.. it comes and goes so fast.. dont get wrapped up in it... if people dont like you for you dont bother with them!

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lorelei answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:14 am:
Don't hang out with someone to gain social status. Hang out with people whose company you enjoy. Someone's ability to make you laugh is infinitely more important than their ability to get you a seat at the right lunch table. It'll be better for your self-esteem in the long run. Also, you'll see that people are drawn to self-confident people who aren't afraid to be themselves. You really do earn friends by just being yourself.

Not to mention, if you're in the 6th grade, you're only 11 or 12, right? Hon, your popularity in middle school and high school will mean absolutely NOTHING in a few years. You're better off spending time with people you have a lot of fun with rather than worrying about trying to become popular.

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CrayzeelilDanca7 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:08 am:
Well first are you really friends with the popular friend? Well if you really arent dont just hang out with her to get a reputation. You and your other friends can get a reputation easily other than hanging with a popular friend. Dont change who you are to get a reputation. Be yourself and make alot of friends if you can! You'll have a good reputation. Plus some popular girl other people hate! So Be yourself !

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HunnyBunny answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:07 am:
Well if you want to yeah, but be yourself!

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:06 am:
No; you shouldn't use people. You can find youR own way - you'll be fine. hope I helped! =D

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jbdreamer answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:06 am:
Only hang without with her if you are really going to be her friend. If you are only going to hang out with her to try and be popular, then you are using her, and that is just shallow and wrong.

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