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What is Love?


Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:19 pm

my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

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questionmark201 answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:00 pm:
Love is when u cant stop thinking about that special some1. Love is when u can talk to that person forever. Love is when you know that no matter happens u will always be there for them and love is knowing thatno matter who comes into the picture they r the right one for you.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:26 am:
Wow, that question has got to be the oldest one in the book, and the hardest one to answer. I'll give it my best shot, though...
I believe that love is different for everyone. Everyone figures out what it is through different means. Some teens do know what love is (myself, I believe, being one of them).
When I was fourteen, I thought I was in love with my boyfriend. Boy, was I wrong. I figured out that I was wrong this past year, when I realized I was really in love with my current boyfriend. I knew I was in love when I said "I love you", and I hadn't intended to. It just slipped out, but it felt right. Love, for me, is what makes the room tilt when he kisses me. It's what I feel when he touches me, what I see when I look into his eyes. I can picture us together in the future, growing old together and all that...to me, that's real love. (Influenced by my mother, kind of. She and I have the same thoughts on love.)
The scientific explanation is a bunch of chemicals mixing and confusing the brain and all that, but that's no fun, is it?
Love is an amazing emotion, and the word should not be used lightly.
There's my opinion!
-Siren =)

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 11:07 pm:
Love iz when u cant put into words how u feel and he takes your breathe away and juss lookin at him makes u smile. And when u talk to him or he puts his arm around u u get butterflies all over and u feel like u could juss float away its the best feeling in the world!!! Hope i helped



.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.

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Dont_Fall_Twice answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:09 pm:
Well I use to believe that people could not fall in love at an early age... I thought we were too immature to. (I'm 14, 15 friday) But you see I had this boyfriend... And at the begining of our relationship I believed that. Ya know... No such thing as early love... I just thought I was learning things and getting ready for love. But, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now, And I realize it is love. Even if it's not 'true love' and he's not like the guy I will spend the rest of my life with. I still love him. I know this because we are best friends as well as boyfriend and girlfriend. He has respected me very much in this relationship and has ALWAYS been there for me no matter what. I just think it takes time to know what love is, and yes I think teen agers may confuse love with crushes... But I still believe in young love... Sorry so long..> THought a personal story may have helped... If you need anything drop one in my inbox... Best wishes! :) -Britty-

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DancexHardxNotxBackup516 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:31 pm:
Love is feeling like the other person fell out of heaven love is so amazing that you just cant describe it

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alexiel answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:30 pm:
I think love is when you feel that a person is the most important thing in your life, and that the person makes you feel like if everything will be alright as long that person is there ... as well, it's also knowing that even if the other person hurts you, you'd rather feel that pain than have the pain of separation ... moreover, when you're in love, the other person makes you feel like you're no.1 to them, and you're just happy knowing that the two of you will be together, even if it won't last forever ...

Personally, I don't think teenagers (even though I'm still one) can really feel love. Most people feel lust. So, when you're in love, sex shouldn't be the no.1 priority; instead, it's something that brings you closer, something more emotional than pleasurable ...

Well, apparently, peoples' first loves are imprinted into their brains, so the first boyfriend that you really love (and vice versa) will always be remembered .. and those feelings never really die off, if the two of you seperated due to uncontrollable factors, like school or parents ...

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Fall_in_love_once answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:26 pm:
wow... well.. i belive that it doesnt matter how old you are.. if you feel love then its really there... parents and other people just say that we dont know waht it is because they are scared and dont want us to know what it is... plus sometimes some people feel alot of like.. and its not love.. but they havent expeianced love... so they use it out of term.. so her parents may be thinking about that too... but anyways... derr of course teens can know what love is.... just because some people use it out of term doesnt mean that we are stupid and dont know what it is! parents just need to relize that we can have the same feelings that they do

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crzybrina4u13 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:17 pm:
It doesn't matter what age you are when you fall in love. You'll deffinitly know when you do fall in love though. Love is when you care about someone so much that you would do anything for them. It is when you can't stop thinking about them. Her parents are probably just trying to protect their daughter.

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xXKiSsMeXx answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:07 pm:
L is for the way you look at me, O is for the only one I see, V is very very extraordinary, E is even more than anyone that you adore... LOVE WAS MADE FOR ME AND YOU!!
haha ok i'm done

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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:54 pm:
It dosn't matter what age you are you can be in love @ any age. And lots of ppl offen marrie there hight school sweetheart so its possable to be in love when your a teen. xoxo chels

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texangirl01 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:51 pm:
well her parents are right. when your 14 you more then likely havent found that one person who you are going to spend the rest of your life with and the person your going to have your children with. You may like somebody and have a crush on somebody when your 14 but there is a very VERY slim chance that you are IN LOVE. and you dont know alot about love when your 14 either lol. i mean your hardly old enough to get a job, you havent done anything real dangerous(if your a good kid), you havent lived life and run into to serious and financial problems....lol...your just a kid!!!

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:41 pm:
it's very easy to fall in love. alot of young girls when they first start going out with their boyfriends they automatically say "i love you" to them. they really don't love eachother. love is a very strong word and you can't take it for granted. you have to mean it when you say it because to me telling someone that you love them is like crying wolf. i'm sure you all know that story so i don't have to get into it but i think that if you're wayyy to comfortable to say it to someone then you really don't love them and i mean too comfortable to say it to them when you first start dating eachother. i love my boyfriend i love him for who he is and i am in love with him. he's in love with me we have strong feelings about eachother and we know that we want to be with eachother for a long time. love is just such a strong feeling that it's hard to explain to people. i'm not sure if that helped but... you asked what i thought about love.

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:33 pm:
Love is when you care about someone more than you care about yourself.

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LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:29 pm:
love is really an unexplainable feeling. its actually more than just a feeling. its something you do. you can express your love for soemone in so many ways (not just sex if thats what you're thinking). its kinda like when you know you will do anything and everything you can to make a person happy, and even when the person pisses you off, you just know you have to forgive them because you know you would be freakin lost with out them. theres so much more to it like commitment, and honesty and all that. its just so hard to explain.

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redneckchik1590 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:27 pm:
well love.... love is something one one person should say to a person that they know they love and want to be with love is complecated so dont say it or fall in love untill u find the right one

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xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:25 pm:
what i think about love: 1) you can't control it 2) it can come at anytime

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