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Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 6:59 pm

I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?

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Additional info, added Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:15 pm:
one other thing i feel like guys like me but they just dont wanna go out with me because i am taller then them (i am 12 and 5 9)
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simpleesweet78 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:31 pm:
Dont worry my friend its really talk about 6'0ft and she feels the same way you do. But if you really like the guy just ask him its ok if he says no theres SOO many other guys out there.. dont worry you'll find someone . In a couple of years the guys will be catching up to you .. good luck

lauRa

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Thursday August 12 2004, 2:13 pm:
dont feel bad... everyone is different... if everyone was the same it would be a pretty boring world... give it a couple of years and those guys will catch up to u... and if u really like a guy ask him anyway.. if he says no its ok... theres a lotta guys out there..

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AquamarineRose answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 11:00 pm:
I know how you feel.I'm one of the tallest girls in my grade too.Granted I'm only 5'8.But I have a boyfriend of about a month and a half and he's not my height.So I know there are guys out there that aren't phased if a girl is taller than them. If a guy doesn't want to ask you out because of your height then he isn't worth it.And eventually the guys in your grade will grow taller.And if height really matters to you that much start scoping out the basketball team.

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AlWaYsThErE4U answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:06 pm:
first thing is first u said u were 13 what are u and if a guy likes u he'll like u for u and everyone get reject it slife just try it go wiht yur heart and just relax

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LaLa34lismchle answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:02 pm:
5'9 isnt too bad one of my old friends was like 5'11 so dont worry aboutit by the time u get to highschool all the guys will be taller and u wont have to worry about it at all and also theres plenty of guys that like tall girls. most models are even really tall . if it helps u any im not tall im realli short im 16 4'11 and a half and sumtimes being short isnt so fun cuz i feel like younger than i am but its all good

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Fall_in_love_once answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:35 pm:
dont worry... your just 12... the guys will be taller than you in a year or two.. lol... and you shouldnt be worried about their reaction! just go for it! really!! if they say no... in a couple of years.. they will be BeGgInG for you! i mean.. ya your tall i mean wow.. 5.9 is tall for a 12 year old.. but girls mature faster and get growth spurts sooner than guys... just look at it as .. .your just wayy to mature for them :-) good luck

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:31 pm:
omg! i have tha same exact prob so i kno how u feel. Um...you should try askin guys out. if they realli like u and u like him then there realli shouldnt b any prob wit height.so jus try asking a guy! if u needa talk u can IM me blondii14697 or leave one n my inbox Hope i could help =]
xo`amanda

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sportscutie13 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:19 pm:
Just don't think that and try asking them and if they say no, they are only hurting themselves. I'm sure u'll find a guy who likes u just the way u r. That is how it should be!

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missmanda answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:11 pm:
those guys are just shallow.. now who wants to go out with a shallow guy? i kno i dont, and i never have..

find a guy who likes u for u .. maybe someone a little bit older?? if thats okay with your parents.. im 14 and i dated a 15 and 17 year old. but im not really tall.. im just saying, lol. older guys are normally more mature and like u for u.. etc.

hoped that helped a bit.. lol :-P

<3 Manda

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BewareOfCat2 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:59 pm:
I am one of the tallest girls too! I know how you feel. I love my height and wouldn't change it for the world. At thirteen most boy's hormones haven't kicked in yet so they aren't very tall. Eventually they will get taller and see how gorgeous your height is. Be proud of your height, because I guarentee you there are probably a lot of girls who envy it!

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texangirl01 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:56 pm:
well every person has that slight fear of rejection. but you just have to over come that!!! just start making better relationships with guys who you think you might like!!!! and im sure they will start to like you for who you are and not how tall you are!!! hehe

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heya answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:31 pm:
Wow you should be proud you're tall. And its very normal for girls to be taller than guys at that age..usually wen u get to highschool the guys will start growing and hopefully theyre growing now where theyll be tall or taller than you. So dont worry! Also dont be afraid of rejection..just go for it. And try to find a guy at least little shorter or maybe as tall as you so you wont feel so awkward.

hope i helped

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LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:30 pm:
ask out guys who are older then you. im sure they are taller. but it really shouldnt matter how tall you are for a person to like you. they should like you for your personality not your height.

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SweetStarx89 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:27 pm:
HI. it's okay that your tall and just go ahead and ask the guy out that you like. it's doesnt matter who's tall it's the matter that you like that person and you wanna be with them. just put away ur tallness and just ask him. and it's okay to be tall. just be tall and be positive yah kno. and in a few years you find that all the guys will be way taller so dont stress and have fun. Take Care..hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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redneckchik1590 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:26 pm:
i think you should just go up to them guys and say hey i may be tall but i am a good person to be with and around so hey would u like to go out with me? ...well comeing from me thats not what i would say cuz im only 5'1 but maybe it iwll work for u good luck

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:25 pm:
well, if you like sports then go out for the basketball team lol. nah you dont really have to do that. but maybe some guys do like you but they're too afraid to tell you. its just how some guys are. it shouldnt matter how tall you are or how much you weigh or anything. its just that you had your growth spirt before they did. they'll catch up soon enough. hope i helped.

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xo_Meg_ox answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 7:24 pm:
trust me, everyone will catch up - besides, models are all really tall and EVERY guy wants to go out with one of those! lol

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