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i wanna be friends...
okay im a 14 almost 15 year old girl and me and this guy dated for 8 months. it was a really good relationship for the first 7 months but then we started to get into big fights. but it was really never my fault. hes the one who started it. and he admited it. well, he broke up with me a little over 8 months. yeah i was sad and i wanted to still be friends so we still talked and hoped to still hang out. well about a week after we broke up i started talking to this guy.. um.. lets just call him "my friend". (?) anyways.. my friend lives right by me so he walked to my house like everyday and we'd hang out. some how my ex got my friends screenname and started being a jerk to him. im talkin tellin him hes gay and a loser and has stupid friends and is stupid and all that junk. well, my ex was like who the hell do you hang out with? and my friends like your ex girlfriend for one. and my ex is all talkin bad about me and stuff which actually really hurt. but my friend stood up for me cause hes sweet and a really good friend. then my ex decided he was gonna fight my friend. not cool at all. but anyways... my ex is really really mean to me and all now that schools started. but my friends still like him. why i do not know because he was always mean to them. i just think he hangs out with them because he has no friends of his own. but i dont know what to do about this. they still wanna hang out with him but dont around me because they know i dont get along with him. i really wanna be cool with each other for my friends sake... but i refuse to talk to him because of all he said about me. what do i do??? (sorry this isnt brief. i couldnt explain it short)
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ok.. well it sounds like your ex just turned into a major jerk... i dont get why he would IM and fight you friend if he wasnt jelouse... i think his hole thing is a big show to make everyone think that he doesnt care about you anymore... that kinda stuff happends alot!... and you dont have to be friends with him just because your friends are.. i meen... i wouldnt be friends with him if he was that big of a jerk to you!!... but if you have to be friends with him then just tolorate him when your friends are around.. but you dont have to deal with him anyother time... but if being his friend will make you upset.. then dont do it!!!
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