Is it bad or like not cool to go out wit ure frends ex bf?? cuz my frend sed if once ure frend goes out wit a guy the guy is "their property" nd the frends cant go out wti them but then my otha frend has like stolen like 5 of my bfs.. so is it bad to go out wit ya gurls ex (not steal but just like a while after they break up.)
thnx
xoDeexo answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:01 pm: i personally think its okay to go out with your friends ex. i have 2 best friends and we all went out with this guy ( at different times of course ). and nothing happened between us. but maybe thats just how we are. maybe you should try talking to your friend before you do anything and see how she is with it. and when you go out with a guy.. its not "your property" and none of your friends can go out with them after you. i hope i helped you <3 [ xoDeexo's advice column | Ask xoDeexo A Question ]
LiLbLoNdIe18 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:35 am: I think that it all really depends on how long they broke up and how they broke up. Like if they broke up a year ago and they just felt like they wanted to see other people and are in talking terms now it would be fine. But if they had a really messy break up and he broke her heart then you should definatly stay away. Do you really think that dating this guy is worth it if it involves hurting your friend's feelings? Just ask your friend how she would feel about it. Hope i helped
oxox ~Heidi~ [ LiLbLoNdIe18's advice column | Ask LiLbLoNdIe18 A Question ]
BeezKneez answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:24 am: Whenever htis has happened to me in the past I've been ok w/ it, but u might wanna sit down and talk 2 ur friend about it and see how she feels about it. If she's really ur friend then she'll @ least listen 2 wut u have 2 say. Good luck! [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
lil_kati22 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:07 am: well it depends you should ask your friend for her permission because if they still have feelings for that person they might get mad... I hope I helped... If you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box...
blackmamba answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:02 am: talk to your friend about it. if she is completely not cool about it because its too soon after their breakup, she may be mad. so wait awhile until she doesnt care. or if she is cool about it, she will be really happy that you were honest about it. i personally dont think its that bad.. my current boyfriend dated one of my friends before he dated me, and its been all gravy. [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
sarcasticgal1221 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 8:54 am: It depends on a few things: How close are you to this friend? Will the friend care if you go out with him? Will it affect your friendship?
You don't want to screw up any friendships over a guy.
Personally, I don't think that just because your friend without with him it means that he's "used up" for your group of friends, but at the same time, if she's not cool with it, then you should take that into consideration. [ sarcasticgal1221's advice column | Ask sarcasticgal1221 A Question ]
blake08 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 7:03 am: well hmm....
I think that you should talk with ure friend...if she doesnt want you to you don't
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