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Getting over him
I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him?
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I used to have a crush on a Mark as well. =P Anyways, the way I got over him was socalizing with other guys. It may not work immediately since it takes time to get over them, but that's how I got over him. Try reminding yourself you can't have him as of now since he's taken. Also try thinking "I'm over him now" or "I've moved on, and I can't think about him anymore." It'll be hard, but you'll get over one way or another. =)
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if i was you i'd just accept the fact that he has a girlfriend or he may be seeing someone. try to find someone else to like... Just remember!! there are plenty of other fish in the sea!!!! Good luck hun. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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aww thats hard. try hanging out with some other guys, maybe with a group of kids so u can get to know other guys better and see their personalities. Mark mite like u in the future but for right now u should try and be open to other great guys out there..and i'm sure its his loss
;-) hope i helped
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honestly ive been through this situation before. theres really no certain way that anyone can tell u how to get over this guy. it just takes time. think of it in this way: u must really like this guy mark right? well if u do then it shouldnt be only about you it should be about him as well. the more u like a guy the more u just want them to be happy w. watever that means. even though u still like him alot maybe u should stop talking to him for a lil while till u feel that u can be friends again with him while being comfortable. make sure that u dont hurt urself in the long run though. its gonna be hard but I PROMISE it works. ive done this before. hope i helped ya!!
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Your feelings for him wont automatically disappear you just have to give it time, and keep looking for another guy, once you find the guy you are interested in, the feelings you had/have for Mark will start to fade
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Try going to parties and socializing with different guys. If you have fun hanging around and flirting with other guys, its easier to get your mind off one guy. There's really not much else you can do-you kind of just have to let the crush take its course but in the meantime, hanging around with other guys really helps.
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