Hey! My name's Nicole and i love to help out.
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: ask mee*
Member Since: July 28, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: September 2, 2004
Visitors: 1607
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Hi.Yesterday i went to the doctor for a checkup and discovered im still only 5`3 and a whopping 206 pounds :( I gained about 8 pounds in 7 months. My weight has gone up and down for a few years, but this is the highest its been . I almost broke down crying in the office. Ive played the weight loss game..but in the end i keep losing. I dont want to lose the battle of being overweight.My mom and a couple friends who know my weight tell me I dont look like im 200lbs.
Im very athletic and muscular..but i hAVE to lose weight for good. I play tennis, basketball, softball for the school. Im pretty good at all of them...Im sorry this is long and its asking for a lot..but..im lost, depressed, and i dont know what to do. I dont want this to get out of control. I need to stop it now! Please, anything..i promise to give you the good ratings you guys desserve.
~desperate n depressed~ (link)
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Hey! ok write down a strict diet for yourself. Try to have your whole family help you along the way and maybe follow the diet as well, so this way there wont be any junk food in the house. Drink A LOT of water, because it flushes out your system and you aren't as hungry anymore. Bring a water bottle everywhere you go. You can maybe take a dance or aerobic class, im not very athletic but dance keeps me pretty healthy. Most important of all,make sure you are confident about yourself and feel good about yourself. Best of luck, i hope everything works out well for you.
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soooorry its long, but i need help :(
Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!
p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss! (link)
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Whoaaaa just like me, i was sooo obbsessed with this kid damian for like ever! But i never went out with him, so you're lucky. Alright, you should call him up and tell him to meet you somewhere where you guys can talk. Discuss why you were angry with him and tell him how much you care for him and love him. Let him know that he is the center of your world. Apoligize for whatever happened if you feel that you should, and tell him that you would really, really like to try again. From there, everything should just take its course, and hopefully he's not a jerk about it. Best of luck, i hope everything works out well for you.
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im having a sleepover and i need a theme.there will be 3 girls there and we r 14 so plz help wiv sum good themes i rate well (link)
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Hey, ok so play a game where someone throws out a topic (such as hot guys) then everyone says something about that subject. Like for example, if your topic was hot guys, you could tell a story relating to that topic or something like that. When you play truth or dare, its wicked easy to get off topic cuz everyone tells stories, so this is a little easier. Hope i helped!
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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.
i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do? (link)
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I watched that freakin movie in my basement at a party once and im scared to go down there! lol but i know exactly how you feel-put on a radio and lay in your bed listening to the radio for awhile while the light is on. Try not to think about the movie, and concentrate on the songs on the radio. Also, if you have a pet like a cat or dog, try to get the pet to stay in your room at night. After awhile you can go shut the light off and keep the radio on through the night.
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him? (link)
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Try going to parties and socializing with different guys. If you have fun hanging around and flirting with other guys, its easier to get your mind off one guy. There's really not much else you can do-you kind of just have to let the crush take its course but in the meantime, hanging around with other guys really helps.
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im tryin to get a flat stomach so im doing 100 situps a day, nd my stomach is gettin a little harder , but i wanna do some more excercizes to get it flat .. ne 1 kno ne? plz i rate 5's! (link)
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Bicycles work really well-sit up on your elbows and kick your legs in and out while keeping them very low to the ground. Make sure you BREATHE or they won't work.
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okay, i am a naturally pale person but all this summer i have been tanning so i look normal with a tan now, but its not like reeaally insanely dark like i want, like when ppl see me i want them to be like omg your tan im so jealous! so anyways now that summer is almost over, i jus pretty much am gonna go to the tanning bed but does anyone have any tips to get like black with a tanning bed by at least the middle of october! thanx! and also, i have a hard time tanning my face, feet, and chest, any ideas on how i can get these to tan like my legs??! (link)
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I would definetely suggest mist-on tanning over a tanning bed-i think you get a better tan, plus it is soo much safer and does not cause skin cancer. If you mist-on tan a few you times, you should get pretty dark.
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okay ive liked this guy for like a year and i cant stop liking him...hes like perfect...and i want to stop liking him because I dont think I have any classes with him and I dont think I will see him a lot but ive been trying to not like him...and i just keep thinking about him all the time and how i like him so much...please give me advice on what to do... (link)
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wow i was the exact same way...after not seeing the guy i was like obbsessed with,i sorta began to just stop liking him. You can't really control who you like, but i went to some parties and had fun flirting with other guys and eventually i stopped caring as much as i used to. You kinda just let the crush take its course but it helps to hang around with other guys. Maybe you'll find someone new.
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Hi my name is Casey(girl) and im 14 years old.I try really hard for guys to like me but i never seem to attract that many. How do i get guys to like me?? (link)
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Hey Casey!! It's Nicole! You're so pretty and skinny-don't worry about finding a guy, he'll find you...have fun flirting though, that's what i do. haha xoxo luv ya so glad i gave you this site! lol
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im 5'5 and 142 pounds(i know thats fat)and the past few days i have eaten alot.. im 14 and i am starting school at the end of August.. i want to lose 15 pounds.. but theres no gyms i could go to and i cant run in my neighborhood since its a bad one.. and i just can't stop myself from going into the kitchen to eat.. i try to drink 8 cups of water a day.. but nothings working.. i try sit ups etc. but i can't seem to stick with them.. can anyone help? I'll rate anyone who has a fast easy solution to lose 15 pounds.. (link)
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Put your favorite song on while you do bicycles. Go up on your elbows and kick your legs in and out, but keep them low to the ground. They're really tiring but if you have music on then it's a lot easier.
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Hey..
Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=) (link)
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John Robert Powers
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Hey, I REAALLLLYYYY need help! I'm 15/f and I've had the summer to decide between School activities OR dance company. I'm been doing jazz dance since I was 5. I did track last year and I loved it also. I really cant decide, and i have to figure it out QUICK because I have to sign up for something... these are the good and bad things I can think of for both of them:
DANCE: ive been doing it so long, I love it, performing company is AMAZING, they get to travel for competitions, it would take A LOT of dedication since i'm behind, theres no real garuntee I would get in (but theres a good chance), I would have to be dancing a minimum of 6 hours a week, even when I wanna quit id hafta put on a smile and deal
SCHOOL ACTIVITIES: i'd be doing track waterpolo eco club and dragon boat, id be getting really involved in school, lots of pics in yearbook, more chances for friends, ive never done waterpolo eco club OR dragon boat before so theres no garuntee i'd like it, i dont like my feet, I might not be good since I dont have any experience, when I did track I made a lot more friendships
I cant do both because there isnt enough time. My school also doesnt have a real dance team, it's like a drill type team and Im not into that.
PLEASE HELP ME! TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD DO! IF YOU HAVE ANY IMPUT ON POSITIVE AND NEGITIVE ASPECTS OF ONE THEN SAY IT!! I NEED HELP
thanks for reading!!
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I'm on a dance company too-i love it soo much and dance is my whole world. The only thing is that it does take up most of your time and it is a huge commitment...if you feel like you can make that commitment and you won't feel bad about not doing all the school activities then defintely go for the dance company. It sounds like dance is your passion, like me, so i would say stick with it. As for making new friends, i'm really really close with most of the people on my dance company-we're like sisters! That's one thing i absolutely love about being part of something like that.
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alright, i'm hoping to start tennis this fall (its my first of high school). the only problem is that i know i'm going to have a physical to play on the team. well this is super babyish, but i am scared to DEATH of shots. so i was wondering what do they do during a physical? i know they weigh you and measure your height but is that all? i'm almost positive i'm going to need a tetnis shot :( , but do they have to prick my finger or anything? and one more thing, is there any way to get around getting the shot?
thank you so much!
Lana (link)
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I hate finger pricks soo much-but if you have to get one done, ask the doctor if you can get it done in your arm instead. There are more nerves on your finger so if you get it done on your arm, it doesn't hurt as much.
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