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Gender: Female
Location: florida
Age: 13
AIM: xitwasonlyakissx
Member Since: July 28, 2004
Answers: 38
Last Update: August 16, 2004
Visitors: 1735
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do u have a botfriend if not i want to go out with u (link)
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hah riiite you wanna go out with me *sneezes* excuse me i'm allergic to bullshit. lol
phhhhst!
who ARE you! hah. (i'll bet you this is lauren joking around w. me) :P
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Do you know any good songs? (link)
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YES i know a TON of good songs....but what kind!?!? lol IM me ill send you some good songs! vxpiecesofmexv or xitwasonlyakissx alrite bye xoxo
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my gf just dumped me and said we needed to take a break and she said she we would probobly* go back out and she said she woundnt get another bf but i found out she wants to go out wit this other guy what should i do (link)
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well its up to her what she wants to do. maybe shes exploring her options...
you'd probly do the same thing, maybe she really did need a break for you. Its hard to mantian realtion ships...believe me. this same thing happened to me...i broke up with my bf b.c i needed a break and i ended up liking someone else! but i dont like him and i mite go back out with my ex. i dont know yet tho. i still wanna see what my other options are b.c i dont wanna waste my time on sumthing that isnt real.
I HOPE I HELPED!!!! lol bye xoxo
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ok i got four questions im a girl
1.i dont shave my pussy is that weird? should i? do u?
2.i masturbate daily. do u think there is anything wrong with that?how often do u?because i heard that everyone does it.
3.my bf does too but i dont kno if thats bad or good. do u think that is?
4.my bf is also uncircumsized or watever and i think there is nothin wrong with that but hes tryin to decide if he should get circumsized do u think thats nasty? do u think he should?
thanks alot please take your time and answer all these questions completely. thank you (link)
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1-whatever you want to do is fine...
2-not weird at all.
3-are you kidding! all boys do it...even more than girls usually. its totally normal.
wow...ur a weird girl...no offence...IM Me to ask these next time lol
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hey i really like this guy his name is ross and he really likes me but i dont no how to make out . so can u give me some advice with makeing out - thanks haley. (link)
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lol kissing is just...kissing. i mean theres nothing to it. do what ever feels the most natural! i asked a few of my guy friends what they liked and they said that when the time comes you'll know what to do. theres not really any rules to making out....its just making out. lol so do what you think feels rite and i'm sure he'll like it :)
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Chelsea,
I did some stuff with a guy and then like everyone found out about it and now everyone thinks i'm a alut and this guy treats me like shit now and embarrases ( I think thats how u spell it...) me in front of all his friends and I H-A-T-E it! I'm tired of the rude comments and his immaturity! What should I do?
X3, KrIsSy (link)
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i'm so sorry to hear that. fist of all what you do with any guy is completly your decision! they should NOT be in your buisness! (stupid immature boys) lol. try to tell this boy that you dont appericate him calling you these things and being rude! let him know that your sorry that he got hurt or that hes jelous. ::say this NICELY!:: theres this saying and i know i know...its stupid but it goes "kill 'em with kindness" it workds, i swear. if you ask him this nicely he may stop...you never know. maybe hes happy that he got what he wanted out of you...i have no clue how guys heads work! :) lol but i really hope things get better for you! Good Luck!
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o ya i just found out she likes another guy grrrrr so gay please help
lol (link)
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uh oh! i'm sorry! ...
well find out who this guy is. confront her about him. talk it over. ask her if she still wants to go out with you, or if your wasteing your time on her. :/ good luck!
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hi i am in need of some help. There is this girl that i like alot but i havnt really met her much before and i think she likes me too cuz shes told me that before. But heres the problem, when i was gonna ask her out i found out that there is this other guy that i think she likes but i dont kno. and i dont kno if she thinks that i just like her becuase shes hot, because i like her for who she is too.also she goes to a different school. please give me some advice i need it! o ya im a boy and im 13. (link)
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first of all, if you like this girl...dont wait! ask her out! chances are she likes you too. Let her know that you like her because of who she is & because shes hot and because of whatever else! she'll be so happy and will like you even more. if you "heard" that she likes another boy...its probly just a rumor. Go for her! -good luck :)
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How do you deal with critizim? (link)
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i know everyone says this. but you really truely have to ignore it. its so hard sometimes (believe me i know!!) but you have to learn to laugh at your self. they are just critiziing you because obviously they have nothing better to do! people who make fun of people or call people names just need to get a life. most of them are just self concious and use mockery as a way to boost their self estseem. they are probly just jelous! so ignore them and dont let it get to you! in the words of christina augulara "You are beauiful in everysingle way...& words can't bring you down!" :) lol hope i helped
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why are people asking you stupid questions? like about if you've had sex...or if you liked the boys you've dated. doesnt that piss you off? or isnt it personal? :/
**--just wonderin--** (link)
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i have no clue why people are asking me questions like that. it kind of bothers me...only a little though & thats only because i'm PMSing & i've had a horrible day. i dont have any secrets really so nothing is personal to me. i like it better that way. because then you don't have to worry about your "secret" getting out. :)
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have u ever had a boyfriend that u acctually liked (link)
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no i just date random boys....NOT. of course i have!!! i've liked every single guy that i've gone out with. if i didn't i wouldnt have gone out with them.
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I have a eating dis-order. like when i go to school i dont eat anything in the morning or at school. and when i get home i stuff my face with food . and it sucks... and my stomach is fu*k up. so what do i do . its like i cant eat infront of guys. its unconferable... for me .
its a fear i have, - thanks for your help (link)
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first of all. you may have something called "hypoglysemia" (i think thats how you spell it.) but if thats it you should have a special time that you eat at. i have an eating disorder too. and i went to the docters (they don't know shit lol) but they were testing me for all these different things. But really all you have to do is eat at a certain time. Breakfast is really important. So maybe eat a yogert, full wheat (healthy) toast w/ lowfat butter, and like a banana...and maybe cerial? [i eat a fat free smoothy that my mom makes] for school all i eat is a nutragrain bar (or slimfast or luna bar) and some fruit. shoving your face when you get home is something you DEFIDENTLY do NOT want to do. So if you feel a burst like that coming on...drink 2 glasses of water with a spoon ful of lemon in each one, then walk around your block. You wont be as hungrey anymore (Plus its a GREAT workout!) just try eating healthy! :) as for being scared about eating around guys....why would you be? guys are such pigs when it comes to eating! what are you scared of?! lol if you dont eat around them they mite start calling you belimic or anerexic!! so eat its natural. lol
-good luck!
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im scared to tell my friends im bi. i dont no how they will re-act. and my family doesnt no im bi. what should i do - thanks for your help -Allie (link)
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i know someone who is bi. she's really open about it. the decision to tell someone is completely up to you. but you shouldnt just hold it in. you could try telling a friend that you really trust first and see how they react. or try telling an older brother or sister. or maybe a cousin? your friends should be okay with it. but coming out is really tough acording to my other friend. You may find the case is that you just THINK you are. i read this article where when your growing up and your hormones are changign that you get confused and that you'll decied what you really are when your older.
--good luck :)
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hi im so scared to go back to school. school starts sept 13 and i have a problem i am scared if i have to go to the bathroom at school like take a #2... i had this problem for a year now, i need help (link)
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wow um... what do you do hold it IN!? i really hope not! what if it slips out! omgsh gross. well i really think you need to get over that "fear." the bathrooms are already HORRID at my school and like i doubt they are better at yours so if your worried about the um...smell? then you shouldnt be it wont make a differnce...i dont think. lol
---hope i helped??? :/
heres some advice from my friend amanda!
"like if i had to go...then i just would its part of life lol who cares!!"
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Hi chelsea, my name is Brittany i am only 13 and i am 3 months pregnant! my boyfriend (we'll call him jamel) left me the a week after i told him the news. my mother has pretty much disowned me and my father left wen iwas like 9. i have no one to help me except my friends but i feel like i would be interfering with their lives having them help me take care of my own child.. that is if i keep it. i am not sure if i should put it up for adoption get an abortion or keep the baby. i would love to keep it but i dont know how i would take care of it. and i would feel terrible getting an abortion . PLEASE help me chelsea i have no1 else to talk to. Love Always Britt (link)
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This is totally YOUR decision..But if i were you..(and this is my opinion pleaase dont take it any other way) i would give it up for adoption. I dont believe in abortion and ur only 13? what r u gonna do about school? collage? u have ur whole life in front of you..i dont think ur ready..do u even have a job? taking care of a baby is HARD work..and its expensive..i highly doubt your ready. Ive said what i think...good luck!! :)
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Hey Katy .. u dont know me, but i want yer advice,i did some stuff with this one guy, more than once, n we promised each other we wuldnt tell ne1, but he told all his friends now every1 is calling me a slut and whore, he sed he liked me alot, and thts kinda why i did stuff with him, we hung out like 50 times be4 nething happened. but am i easy, and a slut? i feel so horrible, please help me
-sam (link)
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nooooooo NOT at all!!! u thought he wouldnt be like that..and it wasnt like u did anything the first time you guys met.. You did what a lot of girls who thought they liked someone would do. Your not a slut at all..he seems like a loser tho thats private UNLESS you wanted him to share (which idk about) Dont feel bad..dont listen to them...
btw--> my name is chelsea spelt c-h-e-l-s-e-a lol hope i helped though
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hey im 14 years old and iv been goin out with this guy whose 16 years old for about 8 months now. i really like him but he treats me like crap. he says he loves me but he hits me alot and calls me fat,ugly etc. hes gotten better kinda but hes still not a great boyfriend. my friends all tell me that i should break up with him but i think they're just saying that so they can ask me out. i cant see my life without him..what should i do????
HEEELLPPP MEEEE (link)
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oh man. Get rid of him ASAP!!!! u DO NOT deserve something like that at the age of 14!!! and hes only 16? thats crazy. ONE HIT or even ONE INSULT get away from him. You need to find someone who respects you and doesnt treat you like that. I know it might be hard and u have feelings for him? but hunny he doesnt have anything for you if he does that =\
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i really like 2 people and the one i really like likes me but doesnt no my friend... and the other person i like he likes my friend and i like him to ?so what should i do! like the guy that likes me? - what should i do! (link)
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okay, first off, you have to decied which one of the boys you like better. if you want you can make a list and write down things you like about each of them & then make a list about whats bad about both of them. which ever has the most good & least bad is the one you should like. but if they come out even, you should stick with the one that likes you! you dont wanna fall for someone who might still have feelings for your friend. -good luck!
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why when you have sex does your cherry pop?
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*clears throat* again..... :o pay attention *lol*
Well the female part (the hymen)...which is a little piece of skin that breaks when u have sex for the 1st time...breaking from a (guy)...sometimes it bleeds a little when it breaks..hince the term 'popping your cherry'
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i mean the kind that "pops"? (link)
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Well the female part (the hymen)...which is a little piece of skin that breaks when u have sex for the 1st time...
thus giving it the name...->"popping your cherry"
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