i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend...
Question Posted Monday August 30 2004, 7:28 pm
ok i dont want to seem like a player but i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend and to admit it i like his friend a little more then i like my bf.. but me and my boyfrind have been going for like 7 months.. and i dont no what to do! his friend likes me a lot too and i need some help badly! please help! thanks x3
Kim_x3 answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:41 pm: I think that you should tell your boyfriend whats going on if he likes you alot you should be honest it might hurt him but honesty is the best policy and if he lieks u as much as u say hes just gonna want you to be happy..regardless if its with him or not. [ Kim_x3's advice column | Ask Kim_x3 A Question ]
cordchick15 answered Monday August 30 2004, 8:59 pm: well what i would do is if you like his friend a lil more than him i would chose him and tell your boyfriend you have now that you need to try other people out and that he might not be the right one for you. cause love is an important thing and if you have more feeling for someone else than who your with then i would change and not let your love/feelings for me to get lost.but i maybe compleaty wronge but im just trying to help you in a differnt opinion. [ cordchick15's advice column | Ask cordchick15 A Question ]
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Monday August 30 2004, 8:28 pm: WElL if you like 2 guys while your goin out w/ your b/f and really like this guy then you shouldn't lead your bf on or like 2 people @ once. So YouLl HAve to choose b/2 the two even tho thats really hard! [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
bebecaliente6989 answered Monday August 30 2004, 8:10 pm: ive been through this problem before and i'll tell u the same thing that i did. i had really loved my bf... i mean i LOVED him! we were goin out for bout a year. BUT i liked his best friend so much and he liked me. at the time i WAS a player and i cheated on my bf alot with him. but there came a time wen i got tired of it and i chose which one to be with. i just thought bout how i felt wen i was with my bf and wen i was with his friend. i thought of me and bfs relationship and how things were heading. at the time it was kinda a lil bad so i broke up with him and went out with his friend. BIG MISTAKE!! in my situation i only left my bf for an ass. but we loved each other and we got back together. so my point is that think about which one would be better FOR YOU! if ur bf really loves u back then if u chose his friend he'll forgive u. but make sure u let him know how u feel before u do this. if u dont then this could lead to more trouble with ur bf and his best friend. hoped i helped!! [ bebecaliente6989's advice column | Ask bebecaliente6989 A Question ]
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