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heyy i am Sarah& i am 13. feel free to ask anything you want i am always here ! =] rate me please !
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okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
signed,
confused
alright well it seems like your ex is jumping to conclusions too fast. if your not afraid you can call him and explain the real reasons you broke up with him but if you are, you know thats not why and if people question you tell them hes a liar and hes just mad cause u dumped him lol. but the other guy seems like he clicks with you and maybe you should bring up the subject of asking him who he likes. and then you should really take the chanse and tell him you like him. i think you might have a good chanse ! then you can make ur ex jelous while you have a nicer person to be with. =]
this is gonna be long so bare with me!
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt?
it seems like ur friend is being a real shithead. let her get hurt because then she will see you were right and for the first couple days if she admits it give her the silent treatment to make her feel bad, but dont wait too long or shell give up so after like 3 days shove it in her face that you were right lol. she deserves it !
alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~
its not your fault, you didnt knoww she liked chris !! and you tell her you'll break up with him but she jus ignores you ? thats really rude. i think you should stay with chris until your friend desides to come back and open up to you again. give her a taste of her own medicene: dont talk to her. it will annoy her cause your not trying to talk to her anymore. and wen she wants to break down and talk, then you 2 will work it out.
I know this might be a dumb question but waht does idk mean?
idk = i dont know. =P
I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?
if hes gonna cheat on you then no way !! its hard when you know you like him but you have to realize he might do something like that. so dont go out with him !
okay there's this guy at school...his names chris and i've liked him for a year now and last year we had 4 classes together and this year we have 4 classes together again! and we've been talking alot and he's sooo hot! and last friday night at the football game he sat down by me on the hill and i pulled out a pack of gum and he said "you know you wanna give me a piece of that right" and so i pulled out a piece and tried to hand it to him but he wouldn't take it...so i was like "uhhh" lol and he said "my arms are too tired i need you to unwrap it and put on my tongue" and omg he stuck out his tongue!!! i laughed and blushed and did it and then we just talked the rest of the night! does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? HELP PLEASE!!
~*lashes*~
he is totally flirting with you !! if he keeps on doing things like that, he likes you babe. maybe if you like him you should try and tell him and see if he likes you back. you never know maybe he`ll ask youu ! overall, i think he does like you !!
I just got kicked out of my moms house and i am starting off fresh at my dads. He doesnt trust me and neither does my grandma. I can t talk on the phone without them listening or i cant get on the computer with out them reading my stuff. I cant go anywhere without them spying on me. They dont let me go any where to begin with. I have to sneak on the phoen and the com at night. I ask if they can just ftrust me and they are like no. They dont even know me. My grandma thinks buying me things is going to keep me out of trouble and my dad thinks keeping me from the world is going to keep me out of trouble as well. I need some advice .
you need to tell your dad& gramma this: keeping you from things will not help. it will only force you to do more things behind their back instead of keeping you from them. they really need to know that keeping you from things is not preventing lies its forcing them more. tell them buying things is nice, but without really being able to hang or talk with your friends will not build trust it will help lose because they really leave you no other opition than to sneak. tell them this.
hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~
you should ask him why he doesnt want anyone to know? maybe he wants to surprize you by something so he doesnt want you to tell. if its cause he thinks your not pretty than hes totally not worth it ! and one reason guys always like a girl is for the looks idc what they say but a part of it is always that so i dont think he thinks your not pretty, it has to be another reason.=]
My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.
if hes already started its a very addicting habbit. theres really no way to "talk" anyone out of it .. and even if hes told you not to tell you really should, you dont have to tell his parents but you could try to find him some help. or maybe try to find ways to stop him from from spending his money on useless cancer sticks. hes 13 i dont think theres many ways to get them when your not even the legal age.
Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut.
just explain to your boyfriend now that you want to break up. dont tell him anything about kevin lol just say you started loosing interest, and you still want to be friends. then wait a week or so and go out with kevin so it doesnt seem ovious that you dumped your boyfriend for someone else.
hey - i had these 2 best friends from 6th grade. then in 7th grade i gotta another really close friend. so i became really close with her but started drifting away from the 2 other girls. but now that it's summer i haven't been hanging out with any of the girls. and now those 3 girls have gotten extremly close and do everything together. now it's as if i'm not even there. and i really want their friendships. what do i do
well sinse it seems you might have gotten a little closer to the 1 girl, maybe you should talk to her and start trying to hang out with her again. either that or your 2 other friends. whichever would be more comfortable to you. and maybe you should try doing things with them and try to be better friends again, or wait for school to come and try to get closer through that if you dont want to call them or anything.
what do you do when you like this boy but your the new girl and he barly knows you
you know what i was kinda in the exact same thing ! exept we went out , and it only lasted like 2 days cause we didnt really know each other.. so maybe you should talk to him and work up kind of a friendship and flirt with him and stuff and evenutally he might end up liking you
Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
Signed NEED HELP FAST!
okay theres a good and a bad side of this: if your really good friends theres a chance of you telling him and he might feel the same. the offset is, if you 2 a that good of friends he might tell you he just wants to stay friends but on top of it all, yes i would tell him.
okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help.
its okay that you hang out with your 2 other friends , but you shouldnt do that jus cause the fact that their popular. thats a little thing people call "using" explain to emily that they are in your class and you jus are happening to get to know them better ! or maybe you should all 4 try to hang out sometime and maybe your other friends will like emily too. its nice to have new friends but always remember to keep your old ones ;]
well here it goes i liked this kid and we started goin out on june 18th i think and we broke up recently...well he was on the fone with me n his best friend grabbed the fone and started dumpin me 4 him and im like ok i got ova it i mean i cryed 4 a good week or longer and im like y did he do that and hes like it wasnt all his fault and im like ok? but ne ways mi friends didnt really like him kinda chubby...but so sweet to me and im havin trouble getting ova him plz help me mi friends think im ova him and everything but i mean i dont wanna make them stress out all 4 me bcuz of him plz help ill rate u Signed brokenhart
i went through like the same thing ! he got his best friend to break up with me for him which is really low. then afterwards all he did was talk bad about me. alot of my friends didnt like him either and like you, he was so sweet to me, but i realized the old-him was back. its not hard to get over it either. trust me at least he didnt call you naims and stuff he probly wouldnt even mind being your friend. and maybe he didnt want to do it cause he felt bad or something and he didnt want u 2 be so hurt. you should set your eye on another guy you may even have the littlest feelings for, and veryy slowly youll eventually really like this person -- but somewhere in your heart you will have a place for the guy who broke your heart , and you need to just let him go for now. anybody low enough to not even break up with you himself doesnt deserve you ! so dont sweat it, keep your eye out for someone else
my brain is fucked up. will u still b mah friend though??
lol sure.. dork =P