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sorry this is so long =/
this is gonna be long so bare with me!
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt?
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if she was really ur friend then she would have listen to you but girls do that to you and they do it all the time so just let her do what so do and don't say anything to her
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I think that u should be straight forward with her even though shes not believin what yoour saying. She may not believe you when you tell her what he wants from her,but tell her anyways-she at least deserves to know. If she doesnt believe you when you tell her this just try to forget about her becasue shes making a major mistake and didnt listen to you when you told her and you have known him and you found out first-hand. And if she decides to go ahead and do this with this guy shes not even dating tehn she will get hurt and it will be her fault and not anyone elses.
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Hmmm well she seems to think you're jealous and if you keep going on about it, she'll continue to think you are. You've already told her and since she won't believe you, let her learn. Or you can try to talk about it to your ex. Tell him to leave her alone or something.
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You already told her your opinion, it's your turn to step away from the situation and let things happen as they will happen. People have to learn for themselves. Imagine if someone had told you the things you are telling her when YOU were going out with him, when you were in love with him. Would you have wanted to listen? The most you can do is hope for the best. **Kacie**
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it seems like ur friend is being a real shithead. let her get hurt because then she will see you were right and for the first couple days if she admits it give her the silent treatment to make her feel bad, but dont wait too long or shell give up so after like 3 days shove it in her face that you were right lol. she deserves it !
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Let her learn. She seems way to caught up with this guy right now and won't see anything except for how "great" he is. She will see eventually, and hopefully she will feel really bad for treating you the way that she has been treating you.
Just ignore her when she tries to say that you are only jealous. You know that's not the case, so it doesn't matter.
If she's being so ignorant, then defintely don't try to help her more. She won't listen to you until she knows firsthand how much of an ass this guy is.
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you've already tried to warn her and she doesn't want to believe you. and she is not going to so just let her go and let her find out for herself. its not worth your aggrivation, its her life. if she doesnt want to listen to yiou and she wants to find out for her self then just let it go. you tried there's nothing more you can do.
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HEY!..Omg i would just let her get hurt b/c she even if he did want something more from her then she will probably just give him what he wants...so i would just let her get hurt b/c u tried to tell her!>.it will be her fault not urs...b/c she dont know how to listen..so if it does happen it wont be ur fault...
-Whit-
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Do what you can to get her to understand that he's not a good guy. Just keep trying to get it through her head. If she doesn't wanna listen,...then that's her choice not to listen to you. But still, keep telling her. So I don't just watch her get hurt, just be straight forward. Good Luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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