Hey, I'm Genna. Genna is Genna... that's what Genna is. I'm a little odd (as you see I was talking in third person), but I am VERY open-minded, hence I'm a great advice giver *holds up chin high*. I'm 15 and listen to almost any type of rock. I like mainstream and non-mainstream bands. It doesn't matter. My views on life tend to be more liberal.
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this is gonna be long so bare with me!
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt? (link)
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Hmmm well she seems to think you're jealous and if you keep going on about it, she'll continue to think you are. You've already told her and since she won't believe you, let her learn. Or you can try to talk about it to your ex. Tell him to leave her alone or something.
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i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do (link)
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Hmmm well it's very normal to be jealous. Open-minded people don't get jealous though... I don't think lol. So find a few open-minded people to hang out with. Ignore the rumors, and DO NOT flirt with every guy who has your attention. Pretend you don't know they like you instead of flirting with them, less girls will think you're a slut. Flirting is like "throwing yourself out there" and not just the girls will say bad things about you, but guys will start calling you "easy." Trust me.
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Ok theres this guy whos like totally cutte and i really like him and he totally calls me every nite! we wind up talking for like 1-2 hours and i really am falling for him! i always ask him who he likes and he NEVER tells me! i told him i liked him and he was like oh thats kool. wen we hang out hes always like looking at me...like really loooooking at me and wen we hug goodbye its like we both dont wanna let go! lol i swear this kid will NOT admit that he likes me but me and my friends thinks he does! i never really try to pressure him or get people to annoy him about it b/c maybe he`s just shy? but i dont know what to do cuz i know that hes gunna call 2nite so any advice on what to say? cuz i really wanna be with him! HELP! (link)
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Ok, well I'm not going to say he likes you and just wait for him to ask you out, it might not happen (I know this from experience, everything sound the same). You have to ask him out. Don't be scared of his answer. I once liked this guy (my friend who is a jerk now) and well he knew I liked him. It was basically the same way as things seem between you two. We almost became a couple, but he lead me on then just LEFT me... it hurt badly. So ask him out. Don't play games lol!
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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
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Well, it shouldn't matter if he's cute or not. Personality is everything. Think about it. Would you rather go out with a guy who is really really hot but is full of himself and doesn't care about you much or a guy who isn't all that cute but is generous and caring?
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Ok I was basically fwb's with this guy named Rick and We would chat online e-mail eachother everyday and he would talk to me in school and then all of a sudden after a month of telling me he liked me he says he doesnt like me after he wrote me the sweetest e-mail then he says I like you theres just a girl at our school I like and she likes me and ive liked her for about a year now. Then I started crying But I like myself but that night I didnt he made me cry for about 2 hours I mean I was in love with him and today he wrote me an email saying the girl who liked him doesnt anymore what should I do? (link)
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OK! Whoa, I went through this almost exact same thing! DO NOT go back to him, he'll probably hurt you again. I went back with my friend and he just hurt me again. It sucks badly. So don't because you never know.
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okay so im a prep. Its my style. But some really big bitch that tries to be 'gangster' and trust me i have no problem with the people who are true gangster, rips on me and my friends. Not that i should let her bother me every1 knows shes a whore, but what can i say back to her when she leaves bitchy things while im on away message.. like for xample shes like yahh you think your hot with your skinny ass and your no thighs and no boobs? Like wtf everyone knows im short but i do have an ass and boobs thank you, maybe not the biggest but pretty damn average, wtf is wrong with her and wtf do i do not to start a huge fight but to get her back?? or maybe give me good thoughts to ignore her? (link)
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Well, I don't like the word "prep" or "punk" or "goth" or any of those stereotypes. I hate stereotypes. People try to stereotype me because the way I dress and have my hair, and my skull bracelet and belt. I love skulls and crossbones. So I hate stereotypes.
Anyway, my friends usually make fun of "preppy" people. I think it's wrong. You shouldn't judge someone by the way they look, get to know them. I know people like the way she described you, but I never say anything, because it's people of all stereotypes and it doesn't matter. Yeah, I don't like a few "preppy" girls, but it's because they treat me like crap because of the way I dress. So, my advice is to just ignore her and smile at her, it will eventually piss her off and she'll leave you alone. Don't give her the satisfaction she wants. She obviously wants you to go crazy and feel upset. People find it amusing. It's cruel really. So first ask yourself if you ever did anything to her. You probably haven't because my cousin is like that girl and she finds it fun to make fun of people like you. So, just ignore her and be nice. She'll eventually leave you alone.
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im supposed to be in a band with my best friend and were all like ready and everything but the thing is i dont have a drumset!!! im supposed to be the drummer but i dont have the money to get it!! i mean my family has money but my mom wont give me any!! its so annoying so i was wondering if sumone can give me m$$lah making tips please?!?!? its needed VERY much!! A.S.A.P!!!
(14/f btw) p.s i rate very HiGh.......
- San diego rocker
p.s does anyone know a store or a place online that sells cheap drumsets?!?
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Well to get a cheap one, go on e-bay, or go to a pawn shop, they have cheap stuff there.
Making money... if you get allowance, save it. If not, there are other things you could do. Try doing chores for neighbors (mowing lawns, house-sitting, babysitting, etc.).
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i have a problem with 2 guys. me and my boyfriend broke up in july, and we we're fighting for weeks. he gotta new gf and that crushed me...keep in mind i had just come home from my cousins funeral in pensyilavnia (i live in illinois) and he had his best friend brake us up. suddenly, he asks if i can call him so he can talk to me about sum stuff, so i did. he tells me how much he misses me and how he broke up with his gf and the only reason he went out with her was because he though it would make him forget about me. i feel kinda bad for him, and he asked if i wanted to go to his house saturday... the thing is, i took his virginity and he took mine. i'm worried if i go over there that we'll have sex and he'll ask me back out. there's a twist to it. i met a guy at school the 1st day, and i really like him and he likes me... the thing is i think we're both kinda too shy to ask one another out and i dunno wut to do!!!! who should i go with? (link)
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Well, you can't ever be too sure that the guy likes you if he hasn't said anything, but chances are he does (that is if you're getting enough hints). Even if this guy doesn't like you, you shouldn't get back with your ex-boyfriend. He could hurt you again. I know. And if you do get back together with him, the other guy might decided he likes you (and he may be a better choice), but it'll be too late to go out with him. So I think you should probably not get back with your ex, and keep your options open because that guy could be asking you out tomorrow!
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ok i have a BIG problem and im sure that it happens to a lot of people.. but whenever something happens that makes me mad i always want to kill myself and its scary cuz sometimes i almost do.. i dont no wut to do and i need some help before i actually do!!! does this mean im like mentally ill or something?? should i see a doctor or anything?? thanks..
xox manda (link)
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I get like that a lot. You should probably see a doctor. You may be suffering from depression.
Whenever you feel that way, put on your favorite fun/happy CD and focus on the good things in life. Try to do something fun that can take your mind off your problems, or tell someone about it. Sometimes it's nice to have a rant in your online or offline journal just to get things out. Also, try to remember that there are so many fun things to do in the world, including things you haven't experienced, and you only have so long to do those things.
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