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help me!!
i have a problem with 2 guys. me and my boyfriend broke up in july, and we we're fighting for weeks. he gotta new gf and that crushed me...keep in mind i had just come home from my cousins funeral in pensyilavnia (i live in illinois) and he had his best friend brake us up. suddenly, he asks if i can call him so he can talk to me about sum stuff, so i did. he tells me how much he misses me and how he broke up with his gf and the only reason he went out with her was because he though it would make him forget about me. i feel kinda bad for him, and he asked if i wanted to go to his house saturday... the thing is, i took his virginity and he took mine. i'm worried if i go over there that we'll have sex and he'll ask me back out. there's a twist to it. i met a guy at school the 1st day, and i really like him and he likes me... the thing is i think we're both kinda too shy to ask one another out and i dunno wut to do!!!! who should i go with?
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i think if you have any doubts about your ex boyfriend you shouldn't go back out with him! because also you gotta think about this-he basically didn't like that other girl while he was goin out with her n he claims it was bc of you--how do you know thats really true you know? and also, what if he did that to you with her.. what if he goes out with you breaks up with you again then goes back to her n does the same thing--you'll feel like shit.. plus if you dont want to have sex with him n your liking another guy, you probably shouldn't go out with him. i'd give this other guy a chance.. get to know him a lil better n talk to him a lot let him know that he can just be himself around you and he doesn't have to be all shy. then give him the hint that you like him n see where that takes you guys! like ask him what he thinks about you then be like what do you think of me as a girlfriend n all that stuff.. it'll help him out a lil bit =) but i'd get to know him first! good luck!
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Call him up tell him how u feel and if that is to hard for you just try avoiding it as much as poosible but hey if u like him and he ask u out great peace out
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this is heylee and if i were you i would make him wait because if he really cared about you he wouldn't of broken up with you in the first place all that talk about trying to forget you was a lie to make you feel sorry for him. And of course he's going to want sex he's a guy. but if he really cares about you then he'll give you time and if he go out with another girl then thats your proof right there Good Luck!
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Well If ur like in love with the first guy then get back together with him or wait till the other guy asks you out and try that if that doesnt work just go out with no one for a while so u can see who you miss being with more
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Well, here's my outlook. I truly believe that things happen for a reason. Your boyfriend and you broke up for a reason. I don't think he is mature enough to handle a relationship if he has his friends break up with you for him and if he feels he needs to rebound to another girl in order to get over a relationships. I am a firm believer in fate, and you met this new guy at your school for a reason. If you feel a connection with him, start up a conversation, make eye contact, and get to know him for who he is. You don't have to jump into a relationship with him right away, find out if he is someone you "click with." Postpone seeing your ex-boyfriend for a while, so you can get yourself together. You are not in the right frame of mind to be seeing him, and the first sign that you shouldn't go see him on Saturday is because you are scared you will have sex with him. If you feel that vulnerable to him right now AND you're scared... then don't. Tell him that you will hang out some other time, this way you can give yourself a breather and you can get to know the new guy.
Hang in there. I hope I helped. Feel free to leave me a question/message any time you need to. I'm always here for advice if anyone needs it.
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go out with the guy at your skewl.... ask him out... guy's think it is sexi wen a girl asks them out.... as for the other guy he only went out with other girl for a peice of ass.. ask him if he slept with her and then you can figure the rest out..... Have a good life with Mr. Right! !
*~*Ashlie*~*
(katrisha helped me out with this question)
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Well, you can't ever be too sure that the guy likes you if he hasn't said anything, but chances are he does (that is if you're getting enough hints). Even if this guy doesn't like you, you shouldn't get back with your ex-boyfriend. He could hurt you again. I know. And if you do get back together with him, the other guy might decided he likes you (and he may be a better choice), but it'll be too late to go out with him. So I think you should probably not get back with your ex, and keep your options open because that guy could be asking you out tomorrow!
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Who do you like more? DO you really want to go back with your old bf and probally still have those problems or go out with a new guy and try something new? Its your choice
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