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confused
okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
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You broke up with your old boyfriend for a reason, you liked another guy. You should tell this other guiy how you feel and find out if he feels the same way. If he does then you should see how things go between you two and then figure out who you like best If he doesnt, then you should talk to your old boyfriend and see if there is anything between you two.
~Pixie Dust~
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Okay i had this same problem with 2 guys last year. If you have a boyfriend.. its okay to look at the guys but you just cant touch them. I do it all the time. You can have feelings for more than 1 guy ya know. Just keep it to yourself and youll be fine. O and another thing... Dont let ur bf see u seekin other guys.. thatll just ruin for ya
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alright well it seems like your ex is jumping to conclusions too fast. if your not afraid you can call him and explain the real reasons you broke up with him but if you are, you know thats not why and if people question you tell them hes a liar and hes just mad cause u dumped him lol. but the other guy seems like he clicks with you and maybe you should bring up the subject of asking him who he likes. and then you should really take the chanse and tell him you like him. i think you might have a good chanse ! then you can make ur ex jelous while you have a nicer person to be with. =]
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ok well first call your ex n tell him wut happened and why just tell him you had mixed emotions over him n your friend which confused you and you didn't know why you liked two guys at once and try to convience him you did it for the best because you were afraid to fall in love with your friend and break his heart n then tell him but I realized he's just a friend I turn to all the times that make me feel comfortable n shit make him feel more needed in the boyfriend type of thing n just explain it but you shouldn't lie though tell him the 100% truth of wut happened and why you did it
hope I helped
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hey hun , you just need to call your old boyfriend up and explain to him what happend and if you think it was tell him it was a mistake...just tell him how you feel about the sitution and your feelings towards him
hope i helped!!
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