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UGH!..srry if it is long
okay..my best friend i love her and everything, but she has this level of flirting that is like wayy over the line. and when ever she goes out wtih someone she like flirts wtih other guys and i tell her that she has a bf and she is like..so he cheated on me! and omg! and whenever she isn't going out with anyone she flirts bigggg time with other guys like she is a slut! and we actyally have some sluts at our school (like gurls gogot "fingerd" or w/e) and she also got fingerd but i am one of the only people who knows about it and i just dont know what to do! please help me!?
~*~*Dazed and Confused*~*~
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Being a flirt isnt all that bad i would know i am one but thats not the point the point is that sometimes when you flirt soo much it becomes natural and you dont always know your doing it. weather that is what is going on with her i dont know?! but just talk to her about it you probably have already and have heard this about a hundred times already but just keep doing it and belive me getting fingered is not all that bad belive me ive had friends who have done worse and i talked about it to them and all was fine
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Well, sit your friend down and tell her everything that is bothering you. Like she is portraying herself as a slut. If she dosen't listen,or if she dosent admit it, than she's not the kind of friend you should have. U need a friend who is loyal, and can and will admit when she's wrong.
Hope we helped!
Staci and Caitlin
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I have a "friend" who's just like that too! She flirts with all these guys when she has a boyfriend! And she always says that the hottest guy is "hers" whenever we go out. She always brags that they're looking at her not me. It really pisses me off but anyway...I think you should honestly talk to your friend about her behavior. Tell her you think what she's doing is a little over-the-top and you're kind of worried about her. Don't come off trying to sound like her mother because nobody likes to hear that from a friend.
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Okay Dazed and Confused,
Just sit your friend down and talk to her! This is for her own good that she hears this from you! Tell her that she is promoting herself off as a SLUT! Talk to her and tell her what you told me about her flirting to much and when she is dating another guy she flirts with other men! Hope things work out! Keep in touch!
-Katie
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i think you need to tell your bf that she needs to settle down on the guys. Getting fingered is dirty. She may even become a slut. But if your a true friend... your should help her by getting her to leave the guys alone and concentrate on school work instead. Or else you and her shouldnt be friends... try to help her
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Our friends all have traits which annoy us. The question is - is the grief you suffer putting up with her flirting worth the rest of the friendship?
If you are constantly annoyed to the point of not liking her, maybe you should rethink the friendship. If you want to remain friends, then you need to have a talk with her.
Basically, though, this is the way she is. She's a flirt. She's not going to change, though she may reign herself in if you happen to be around. You can't expect her to change her personality - no matter how obnoxious it might be. You either put up with it, or you find a new best friend.
The thing to do is to remind yourself of your morals and beliefs and then stick with them - it's up to you whether you do that with your friend by your side.
Good luck.
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