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Question Posted Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:01 pm

Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut.

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spoiledx3shortii answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 11:37 am:
well you really cant help who you like.. if i were your bf.. i wouldnt want to be with you if yo liked sum1 else.. so i dont know.. he was get upset about it or he just may feel that it was meant to be or whatever.. well just tell him that you dont really like him anymore.. try to explain it to him nicely and calmly and just say that you would feel it better if you were both just good friends..
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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:24 am:
well u dont really sound like a slut... but like i say what goes around comes around... dont break up wit him for sum1 else... if u really dont wanna be wit him... well thats another story... break up wit him & have sum time for urself... make sure u wanna be wit this other guy... & u r ready to be in a relationship wit him before u get in one...

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MummuM answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:06 pm:
You don't sound like a slut at all hun. It's just your feelings, their all mixed up. If you like this Kevin guy more then your boyfriend, you have to do 1 thing - dump your boyfriend. It's not right to be with someone and like another person more then your boyfriend. Just tell your boyfriend you rather be friends because the feelings aren't there anymore. As for this Kevin guy, don't go out with him right away once you dump your boyfriend. Your gunna have to give it a little time, a couple of weeks. You can still hangout with Kevin and everything, just give it a little time to get together.. so your boyfriend wont be that hurt. Good luck.

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SexXxiiShortiie answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:28 pm:
well...why don't ya...find a reason you wanna break up with your boyfriend...then like a week later...or a few weeks later...start going out with Kevin...sorri if I didn't help

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xOxLuvYasxOx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:48 pm:
i think what u shoudl do is dump ur bf by tellin him that u guys have nothing inccommen anymore and that u 2 r goin in totally diferent dirrections. then go out w/ kevin but keep it on tha low 4 liek a weeek or so...then break it to evey1....hope i helped...

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:31 pm:
Hey! well i think that if you break up w. your boyfriend that you should tell him the whole truth because hes going to find out sooner or later and if he finds out later hell be more upset. But if you really really wanna try to tell your bf something different then just tell him that you dont want a relationship right now.

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lifezcOnfuSing01 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:56 pm:
wow i was in a situation like this recently and all you have to do is tell him the truth, lieing will only make u seem like a worser (i dont no if thats a word lol) person.. u need to break up with him because otherwise you're just leading your boyfriend on and that makes you an even worser (lol) person. but i suggest that after u break up with him that u give it a little time before you start to date this kevin guy
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the_haha_boat answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:52 pm:
Theres no right way to break up with your boyfriend. He needs to know the truth, and what would happen if you'd run into him with kevin acouple weeks later. Just tell him that you feel stronger about your ex, and that you dont want to hurt him but you have more feelings for kevin. All three of you will feel better knowing the truth.

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x_unreachable_x3 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:47 pm:
just explain to your boyfriend now that you want to break up. dont tell him anything about kevin lol just say you started loosing interest, and you still want to be friends. then wait a week or so and go out with kevin so it doesnt seem ovious that you dumped your boyfriend for someone else.

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UnluckyWishes answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:36 pm:
You dont sound like a slut.The best to do though is tell your boyfriend you have feelings for someone else too and this isnt fair to you.Or you have confused feelings right now.Hope i helped and you and kevin are happy.

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xoRachel answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:31 pm:
You don't sound like a slut.. this sort of stuff happens all the time. Just tell your boyfriend that you're sorry but you don't think you should be together anymore. Say that you don't like him anymore or you don't feel it's working out for you. Then wait a week or two and ask Kevin. Hope everything works out for you! Drop me one in my inbox if I can help you anymore! =c)
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