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my best friend
alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~
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i've never been in your situation but i know someone who was. You should try to get through to your friend, telling her that you really cherish your friendship and don't want to lose it. It might be hard to talk to her but try writing her notes, that way she can know what your feeling if she doesnt want to talk. Try and see what her feelings are for Chris...if she has a just crush on him or wants to be with him. I dont want to tell you if you should break up with Chris or not, you need to decide that on your own.
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definetly dont break up with him if you still like him!! This girl is not a good friend at all! First off you didnt even KNOW she had feelings for him, how in the heck would you know? Second of all if she still doesnt talk to you even AFTER you said you'd break up with him shes got some real mood problems, so stay with this guy if you like him, your so called friend will have to either get over it or just get an attitude change, totally!! or maybe both!! good luck sweets. her friendship isnt worth breaking up with that really sweet guy.
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its a typical BeStFrIeNd!! you should not break up with your boyfriend because you like him alot, it seems that your best friend is not the best person!
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No, don't dump your boyfriend just because your friend is being all ignorant about it. She's just jealous.'N because you just figured out yesterday that she likes your b/f, then that's not your fault, it's hers for not telling you.'Cause how were you supposed to know? So it's not your fault, so don't feel bad about it. Your friend is just being a bad friend to you right now. Give her some time, 'n I say don't dump your boyfriend.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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no...dont dump ur boyfriend...ur friend is probably just a little jealous...just give her some time and when she does come around tell her u didnt know how she felt but that u really like this guy and he treats u really good..and if she is a real friend she will be happy for u...just give her a little time...hope this helps!!!
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ok your friends just needs to understand that he likes you and you like him you shouldnt break up with him because of her ...you should talk to her about it but then again think about it... is your friendship more important to you!
~hope i helped~
<33 hannah
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psh dont dump your boyfriend
your friends just being a bitch and being jealous
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Your friend is being selfish. Did you know she liked him before you guys started going out? If not, how can she expect you to know? She shouldn't hold it against you and it is really immature to use the silent treatment instead of talking it out. Tell her that you really wanna keep being friends but you don't like how she's treating you and you wanna talk your problems out. If she doesn't listen then put her on the back burner until she's ready to talk to you and go on with your relationship. **Kacie**
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it's obvious u really like this guy and that u didn't kno that ur friend had feelings for him. i think that u shouldn't break up wit him becuz (by the way ur friend is acting) it seems like she would have gone out wit him if he had asked her out instead even if u had feelings for him. try explaining how u feel, and also u two might need to take a break from each other. hope it works out with ur friend. and hope i helped!
~Reenie~
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its not your fault, you didnt knoww she liked chris !! and you tell her you'll break up with him but she jus ignores you ? thats really rude. i think you should stay with chris until your friend desides to come back and open up to you again. give her a taste of her own medicene: dont talk to her. it will annoy her cause your not trying to talk to her anymore. and wen she wants to break down and talk, then you 2 will work it out.
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Well your trying i give you props...but i all i have to say is jus follow your heart on this one..and give your friend a lil time...and wen you think its rite to talk to her again then try to explain to her and stuff.. hope i helped..please rate mii...lyl..
* l0vin da rain x3 *
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It sounds like you really like Chris a lot. But on the other hand, there's you friend who likes him a lot, too. You obviously didn't know she had feelings for him when you started dating so why should you deprive yourself of such a nice guy? You need to talk to your friend and she should understand that your happy with him. I mean, even if she likes him she needs to accept the fact that so do you and your happy. If she doesn't then maybe you and your friend need a break. Good luck.
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