Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 2:08 am
I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:47 pm: NO NOt iF hEz gonna Cheat on you shouldnt cuz you dont need to be hurt.. but you could talk to him and tell him you like him and wanna get back with him but say you dont want to if hes gonna cheat on you and his him if he would cheat on you. If he sayz yah then i think yah should forget him and keep him as a friend and go for another guy! CUz YouLl GeT huRt if HE Cheats on you and it not worth it! [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
Tori_Dori answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:29 pm: This is something no one can decide for you.You have to decide based on the help/opinions we give you.I had a boyfriend, and he cheated on me once. I like him so much,I just wanted to forget about it and still continue with our relationship. Unfortunately..that didn't happen.He dumped me the next day because he said he didn't wanna "hurt me" anymore. I was miserable. Later on, he asked me out again, and I said "yes." All my friends keep saying "once a cheater, always a cheater." Honestly...I get pissed when they tell me that, but I just avoid it. And we're still together. So, it depends what your heart tells you. If you really like him, then get back with him.Good Luck, 'n hope I helped.
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:04 pm: jeez guys that cheat suck, they arent worth your time. you have no control over your feelings, well unless your a vulcan, but you do have cntrol over your actions. forget him and go for a guy that wont cheat on you. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
sxyxbabii answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:37 pm: nooo way lol.. not unless you wanna take hte chances of being played! it sounds like you guys are "together" but not really going out.. i dunno but you should probably just keep it like this for now! [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
Christine answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:12 pm: This one is up to you. I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and i never went out with him again. Never trust a guy that says he'll cheat on a woman. In fact oyu could do way better than that kid. Try to find one that's nice enough not to cheat on a woman [ Christine's advice column | Ask Christine A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:25 am: IF you really like him and can trust him, than yes. But if your not sure that he would cheat on you then dont. Youll just get hurt. I would still go out with him though. Almost any guy would cheat on a girl. It dosent mean they are it just says they would if they wanted too. [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 7:49 am: If you want to take the risk of getting cheated on then sure go back out with him... but it would probably be alot easier just to be friends or friends with benefits [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
soljette answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:37 am: if he tells you straight out that he would cheat on a girl, then hes definitely not worth it.. because if you went out with him, in your mind, youre always going to be paranoid thinking he may cheat on you.. and thats not a very good feeling. so, i dont think you should go back with him. he seems like a guy thatll break your heart, and you deserve better [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
FernGully answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:10 am: Don't go out with him if hes admitting that he'd consider cheating on a girlfriend. There are plenty of guys who would never even consider that. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
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