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Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 11:51 pm

hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~

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xOtWiXi answered Monday March 21 2005, 4:31 pm:
Please don't get offended, but he really doesn't like you then. He would be proud of you, no matter how you looked. Don't be with this type of guy, you are too good for that I'm sure! ♥

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pinayprincess74 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:05 pm:
Dear D.I.L,
Dont blame this on yourself. The guy whos crushing on you is just really really shy. Sometimes hes just afraid that rumors will spread about it. Theres nothing to worry about because its just like Beyonce and Jay-Z, they just wanna keep to themselves.
~**~((Nicole Anne))~**~

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gordie_lachance answered Thursday September 2 2004, 11:25 am:
ok. this is a tough situation. If your guy is embarrased to be with you, than he is totally not worth it. You should end the deal. Otherwise, you should say something like, why don't you want anyone to know. If he says that he just doesn't want the attention then it may be becvause he is unsure about himself and doesn't know how people may react. If you are okay with a secret romance that is perfectly fine...but if your into pda and stuff, than you should tell your bf that you want to be able to tell people and if he still says no than he wasn't worth it in teh first place.

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chaos answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:41 am:
Red Flag. He doesn't want anyone to know because he may have a girlfriend already. It isn't you that has a problem, it's him. If he continues to want to keep it a secret, drop him like a bad penny.

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xthebarbiex answered Thursday September 2 2004, 2:53 am:
hey hun.. ok first of all. you DONT want to be with a guy who is embarassed with you. thats so stupid! and im sure your totally gorgeous! He shouldnt want people to kno..he should be proud that ur his girl. My best advice.. screw him and find some1 better!!

best of luck and let me kno!

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jesikuh977 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 2:51 am:
well if hes not gonna show off to the world that he likes you then fuck him =D sorry but its true, a guy should be proud to have a girl like you :)

*jesikuh

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sxyxbabii answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:59 am:
ask him! if thats true n he really doesnt want anyone to know just cause he thinks your not pretty than i'd move on n tell him to go get a girl "that is pretty" since hes mr hotstuff lol.. =D

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BaBiI_gUrL answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:45 am:
dangerously in love, if u really like this guy, try giving him a chance. maybe he has a good reason to want 2 hide it and u should ask him about it... wondering about it wont help.and u shouldnt put urself down about how u look, believe me i do it all the time. <3 walla

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 1:35 am:
he doesnt want ne1 knowing??? if he doesnt want ne1 knowing that means hes scared of whut ppl are gunna think...pretty or not, thats MESSED up and u should tell him this, "if ur ashamed of ppl knowing that u LIKE ME, then i dont want to have nething to do with you.." and end it with the jerk..i know its hard, but ur self respect should mean alot more to u...love kristin

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XxRockon answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:29 am:
maybe he just isn't ready for people to know yet for some reason on his own. i am sure its not becuase ur not pretty..because thatd be a pretty shallow thing for him to do. If its bothering u a lot u could ask him if there is a specific reason why he doesn't want peple to know that u both like each other.

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lostinaportrait5 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:27 am:
well if he doesnt want anyone to know then ask him why and if he doesnt give u an honest answer then tell him to kiss ur ass

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MissIiVannaH answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:15 am:
Dont u think thats kinda mest up that he doesn't people to know because if he likes u he likes u for u not for wut other people think of u.And i bet u r pritty everyong is.What u can do it talk to him about it because that isn't rite in ur part.GOOD LUCK I HOPE I HELPED..:)

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x_unreachable_x3 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:06 am:
you should ask him why he doesnt want anyone to know? maybe he wants to surprize you by something so he doesnt want you to tell. if its cause he thinks your not pretty than hes totally not worth it ! and one reason guys always like a girl is for the looks idc what they say but a part of it is always that so i dont think he thinks your not pretty, it has to be another reason.=]

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Sunshine answered Thursday September 2 2004, 12:02 am:
You are not the one with the problem, he is. Don't waste your time on him, he's not worth it. You deserve someone who will appreciate you for who you are, and be proud to have you as their girlfriend.

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