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Age: 15
Member Since: August 5, 2004
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Last Update: January 17, 2005
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Ok, today my mom called me fat. Well, I don't think I'm fat because I'm 13 (turning 14 in 2 weeks), I'm 5'5, I weigh 113, and I pretty skinny but I don't have a 4 pack. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just gonna stop eating and become anorexic. I don't wanna go on a diet because I get of them in a few days and they are not help. Also, I don't wanna watch what I eat because I usually eat healthy food. Please help!


113???? I'm 5'5 as well and I wish I was 113 lol. I am 120 and I'm not fat. I could lose a few so I look a little better ,but I wouldn't want to lose anymore than 5 pounds. Trust me sweetie, you are just perfect the way you are. You don't need to change your diet if you eat healthy. You don't need to worry about your weight at all. - Fallin2Pieces

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there is this girl and we are kinda together but we are staying "single" through sports seasons in the beginning of the year. She always tells me how she masturbates and and its a turn on for me but how to i ask her if i can do it for her. I dont think she is hinting me on just that she maturbates alll the time and jokes with me about it. We havent done more than making out. what should i do...oh yeah another thing to add is that sometimes she takes things meant to be ba as a joke and sometimes she takes things as a joke personally so idk give me a long response! :)

Hmmm, Well, just making out isn't a bad thing. If you want to go farther, just ask. The worst thing she can do is say "No". Relax, if she dumps you and thinks your a perv, then it wasn't meant to be, which I dout will happen, but you never know these days.-Fallin2Pieces

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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do

Ask her out before it's too late! - Fallin2Pieces

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I am experianced but like what is a regular kiss, just to show someone u like them...just something u would do on there way out...is it like the kisses in movies??



Let see, it depends on what kind of kiss you're talkin' hahaha, just kidding! Well, if you know you like someone and you have the opportunity to kiss them, and you know the kiss feels good at that time... then they will know you like them. It's hard to explain. It's not the type of kiss, it's how you do it, I guess and also what happens afterwards and NO I don't mean sex lol... you know what babe, you'll just know, as well as the the person you kiss. - Fallin2Pieces

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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this?


I'm sure you are beautiful just the way you are and I'm sure it's not you. First kisses can come at anytime. It just happens to some people before others. I have a few friends that are older than you, and they still haven't had there first kiss either. Don't sweat it, you still have time. It will happen, I promise. - Fallin2pieces

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Hey i am 15 and i am having some problems. I am in love with this one girl. SHe is everything for me and me and her have such a connection i think but she insist that we are just friends and she doesnt want to ruin that between me and her. But guess what she likes my best friend now. they met when i introduced them i thought it was no big deal but look at it now, they like eachother. My best friends said its my choice but i cant ruin this for him, the girl said its my choice but i cant ruin it for her. idk what to do. they bother know i like her but i am always like, nah its no big thing. what do i do


Hmmm... Sweetie, I would just wait a little while. Teen love usually doesn't last. Just be there for her and support her. Just think of it this way, if it doesn't work out between you and her then it wasn't meant to be. There are a lot of other great girls out there and maybe you found her and maybe you haven't. Love is like a silly game of hide and seek. Love can be anywhere, it just takes time to find it. You're only 15, you both still have time to realize how much you mean to eachother and if she can't see that then like I said, it just might not be meant to be. -Fallin2Pieces

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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help


Don't worry about it. I used to go out with a kid that was more than a a head shorter than me. Of course I dumped him for that reason, but then again I was 13 and I didn't know what I was doing, no offense. Well anyways, Don't worry about it, you shouldn't care what people think. He'll eventually grow, I promise. For now, don't sweat it. If you both like eachother, then I say totally go for it. - Fallin2Pieces.

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hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic?


Go for the black mascara, if that looks too drastic, then try brown or gray. Also, if you have really light eye brows, try to get a really light brown brow pencil to add more color to your eye brows
- Fallin2Pieces

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lately life has just been weird.... My love life has been a classic dawson, joey and pacey type thing (ie: Dawsons Creek) My best guy friend and i have this thing going on but i have another friend: hes amazing and is one of the greatest people i know... but my best friend is just as great and we have that past together... i dont know im so confused about them.. On top of that my future has been scaring me.. Like to think in a couple years its going to be me.. on my own... I know where I want to be but I'm scared it wont work out and that my parents won't agree with what i want to be doing... Also, what if im not good enough to be what i want to be... Thats something that has always been a insecurity with me... Im scared i wont be good at something i love... i guess im scared that life wont be what i want it to be.... but in a way i think im prepared to do anything to reach my dreams but what am I supose to do... Take the safe route and forget about what i love or see where life will take me...



About the guys, just follow your heart. Wait a little while and see. You don't want to have any regrets in the end, I assume, so make sure you know that which ever guy you choose, he will treat you right.
About your future, The future scares everybody. The world is an unpredictable place, anything can happen. Don't give on your dreams because you don't think your parents will aprove. If they really loved you, they would support what ever decision you make. It's your life, not theres.
Life is all about taking risks, there's a chance you will be successful and a chance you will fail, but never give up because if you fail, at least you know you tryed, instead of living the rest of your life telling your self "what if..." or "only if..." You only have one life to live, so hang in there and don't let go.

-Fallin2Pieces

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I am having major trouble deciding what engine i should put in my s2000. i am down between the flat 4 cylinder and the straight 8. its hard because on the 4 it doesnt come with an extra exaust manifold to prevent excess excaust build up in the long run decreasing power. but the straight 8 cylinder uses more gas and it has to be premium fuel. lol. any help!?

Ummm, Sweetie I know absolutely nothing about cars. I would use which ever will be better in the long run.

- Fallin2Pieces

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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!


I'm in a similar situtation. My boyfriend is hott as well and a lot of girls like him. I'm afraid he'll dump me once school starts, But think of it this way... He obviously liks you if you chose to go out with you and there must have been something about you that he likes. Worry about it when the time comes because it will drive you crazy.

-Fallin2Pieces

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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!


The worst thing you can do is tell him to go away. That's not nice. I'm actually in a similar situation at the moment as well. All I can tell you is to just wait and see what happens. Things will eventually come together. If you like this other be sure that, if you decide you're going to break up with your boyfreind for him, this guy is acutally worth it and really likes you, too because everything can back fire.

-Fallin2Pieces

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