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annoying guy!!!
Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
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stressed out!
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aww man thats a tough situation. You need to take this guy to the side and calmy and nicely let him down. You need to tell him he's a raly nice guy and compliment him but that he's not for you. After you let him down mention to him that he has to make his friends stop harrassing you and that it's really annoying. If they still continue you need to tell them that you alrady told the guy that you don't like him and that they should just give up and stop asking you every 5 seconds.
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guys perspective: the guy likes you that is for sure..... second of all define normal!... there's no such thing. to you he's short......to him... you're tall..... get it.... ignore the friends... talk to him..... get him to loosen up around you... start slow.... say hi...how's your day goin.... something to get him to start talking.... maybe even a good ice breaker.... like "hey good lookin" guys love to hear stuff like that.... maybe once he gets the idea you like him... he'll start to open up more.... for example.... i'm a singer in a band... and usually i don't have too much of a problem singing in front of people... then my girl (now wife) comes to visit, and i cant hold a single note... so i don't sing.... she finally convinces me (after days of "please sing me a song..... for me.." she was so cute) so finally i sang a good one.... but was still so nervous i was shaking badly.... so just open up to him, show him you're nothing to be intimidated by, and he shouldn't be afraid to show his feelings...... and things should turn out ok..... unless his friends hang around him everytime you're there..... get him away from them to talk to him......but don't keep him away from them.... they get jealous... i know.....and then try to mess things up...... you'll figure that one out really quick.... anyway....good luck
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Just ignore the friends. He's obviously sent his posse to provoke you because he does, indeed, really like you. As for the height thing, I know it's hard, but try not to be shallow about it. How would you feel if the guy you liked said you weren't pretty enough or thin enough? Put the height aside and look at the boy!
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Well, It's weird that afta you screamed at them they were still bothering you, I would say something like, if you don't get the hell away from me I'll embarass,_________(the guy that likes you) really bad. They may stop. If they don't drop one in my inbox, xoMarisox. Hope I helped! Good luck! Rate me please!
xoxo, Maris
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I fucking hate it when people do that. They need to live their own lives instead of treating their friend's lives like an interactive soap opera.
Did you really say, "No I don't. Go the fuck away!"? Because if you didn't, you need to. Be really agressive with this. They may think your mean, but at least they'll stop asking you and keep their distance.
It's a shame that he's so into you, but it's nothing you can help. I've been there, I know how he feels. He'll get over this.
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hey its ok, you just need to chill and talk to these kids and maybe talk to the kid that likes you and tell him to stop having his friends harass you b/c if he does like you he will make them stop and just tell them nicely that you are not in to him or hes just not for you or something.
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Alright, it doesn't matter how tall he is because he'll eventually grow just not now. If you like him to then go out with him, dispite what all his freinds say. If you don't like him then just get on with your life. If his freinds say anything to you just engore it or just go with it or be sarcastic about it then they will eventually stop. That's how some people are. No matter where you go someone is going to say something about you for some odd reason. Just go on with your life and don't let it get to you. It's not worth getting upset over. - Fallin2Pieces
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