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Hayy! Im Danielle and I am 16! I really enjoy helping people out and i can give good advice! I have been through alot especially in the past 2 years... and i have always needed people to help me out! Well i know that others need it too and thats what im here for! So ask ur questions and ill be happy to help!!
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ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help
If he said that he used you the 1st time chances are thats what he's doin now! Hes a boy... and boys want to have "fun", but if you just let him use you in that way it will only make you feel and look bad. If you keep it going not only will you still be falling for him, he might go off to his friends and tell them "hay i can get so-n-so ne time i want" and then later on ppl could find out and try it out to! It might sound like fun in short term... but in the long run... its not a smart idea!
I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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13 year old boys are CRAZY haha! You dont need em! They will learn in time to appreciate you! Also you seem to not have very high of self-esteem! You need to realize ur own special look! If you were able to be happy with how you look, it would make you stand out! I think that having red hair and freckles is great! Its what makes your look YOURS! So you should try to be happy with it!!!
me and my boyfriend have been together fro a while now. we had our first fight the other day... i was so mad at him and didn't want to talk to him, but he kept trying to talk 2 me trying to make things better again. well i was extremely mad at him, but all i wanted wat him to hold me and not let me go. anyways is there something wrong with me... i mean because i was so mad at him but didn't want to be away from him. is that odd? thanks in advance
Fights in a relationship are normal... they are actually what makes it stronger! I mean, if you can get past the problems then you can make it shows you can make it through so much! You were mad at him for whatever reason your fight was about but that doesnt mean you dont still care about him and want to be with him! Nothing is wrong with you at all! I have been with guys and i'd get soooooo mad at them, but id still wanna hug em and kiss em even tho they annoyed the hell out of me! Yall should talk thru w/e it is that is goin on and then everything can be great again! Good Luck
my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents?
YES TELL YOUR PARENTS! That is so wrong that she would harm or try to harm your brother in any way for any reason!!! So tell you parents b/c she was wrong in everyway!
I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
At 13 you dont need to have had a bunch of boyfriends!!! So 3 is perfectly fine! Also you should try to be more positive about yourself! Work on your SELF-ESTEEM! Guys like it when a girl is comfortable in her own skin! And definately dont like it when a girl is FAKE! So just be you and you shouldnt have ne problems gettin a guy! And if you dont get a guy right away... YOU ARE THIRTEEN! You have time!
PLZ HELP ME!! Me and my ex went out for a few months and i really cared about him then out of the blue one day he says he wants to be friends for now because he doesnt want a girlfriend. So we still hang out, but everytime I look at him i can tell that he still cares about me and that hurts alot. Should i just forget about him? If yes, then how do I get him off of my mind?
WOW! Thats crazy... im goin through the SAME thing right now! I dated a guy that made me feel like i was a princess and like i was floating... he also helped me past a part of my life i didnt need to have! I really care about him and im pretty sure he still cares about me... but he decided that having a gf wasnt what he needed right now... what he needed was a friend instead! Well it made me sad because i wanted (still want) to be with him and i cried for a while, but i realized that if i couldnt have him as mine... i would never pass up the chance to have him in my life even if it was just as friends. I still hang out with him too and when i look at him i can still see the wonderful person that i was with but i have to remind myself that a friend is all it can be for now. As for forgeting about him... thats for you to decide! Its so hard for me to keep my ex off my mind... so i keep myself busy! If you are doing something other than layin around thinkin bout him you will be able to be distracted by the other things you are doing! Just remember... hes most likely not trying to hurt you... he just cant lie about how he feels cuz that would be wrong. And if you care about him you will realize that if thats what he needs to be happy then you should give him that. Good Luck!
I like this guy but i am not sure if i should go out with him because people say he is immature. I dont see what they are talkin about but I think he is really sweet and i like him. What should I do?
Well... if you like him thats all that matters! The relationship is not you, him... and everyone else!!! Its just the two of you! If you care about him and he cares about you i think you should go for it! And you should tell the other people that they should respect your feelings! Not everyone has to like him but they should watch what they say around you! Good luck!
hey i am 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant but im not sure i dont have a way to get a test and if i am positive than i will get kicked out or have to have an abortion and i dont want to do that. please help me i have no clue what to do.
First off you need to find a way to get a test! You have to know as soon as possible. If you arent then good... be careful, you are only 15 and have so much ahead of you. If you are then you will need to talk to your parents. They love you and should love you no matter what! They might be confussed or upset at first but its something they will deal with in time. As for the abortion... if you arent okay with that THEN DONT DO IT! That is your own personal decision. But remember that no matter what ne one says having a baby is not "the end of your life" its just an addition that when you see the baby will be amazing. Other than what ive said i dont really know what else to say... i hope everything works out okay!
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haha okay! Well i luv ya kiddo! I miss you too!!! Things will be okay again soon and ill be able to come by ne time!!!
do you shave you know... n is it ok to shave it
Ummm.... shaving there is a personal preference... and yes its okay to shave it. So if ya wanna... go right ahead!
what should i do... i love danielle
Well... i have no clue who this is! But if you are jokin around then lemme kno hah! If not then you should also lemme kno!
Hi, I am a whopping 15 years of age and I am about 5'10 and i weigh 130. I am trying to gain weight, I would like to be uh.. a good 150lbs, I think that would be better. I think I am still growing so everything should be okay..So i need to learn how to gain this weight...thanks...Also i have this problem where i seem to sleep with an abundance amount of men and all these girls get really pissed off and i dont know why...I'm losing friends by the minutes,it's horrible...I mean i cant help that the guys they like want to sleep with me...I just dont know what to do...please help me with my problems
Well if you'd like to gain weight dont just splurge into food... that's not healthy! If you diet or dont eat on a regular basis you could try to fit in the average 3 meals a day other than that i dont really know... your body will do what it needs to be doing. Like you said... you are still growing. And to the problem with sleepng with lots of men... its not safe. Sex isnt a toy, its something you share with a person you really care about. But i am not trying to pass judgement! People can get addicted to sex... they have sexaholics anonymous that you could get help with! Also if you just think about it... if you know its doing you harm and you are loosing friends remember that when you are going to have sex with them. There is a toll free number you could call and it might help... (866) 424-8777! Good luck
Me and my best arent allowed to hang out anymore and it really sucks!! i mean we talk but i need to see her, what should i do to convince our parents to let us hang out?
Well your not going to have to worry about convincing your parents because her mom is going to talk to her dad and then her mom will call your mom and life will be good! oh by the way... i lobe you tabb! lol
hi, im only 15 but im very interested in my weight! i recently started gaining weight but there has been no change in my diet. I was 105 but now for some reason my weight has gone up to 116. My mom just thinks im crazy and pushes me away but please don't do the same i really want to get back to my old weight and i want to do it a healthy way, so if anybody can help please tell me how to loose the extra pounds im only 5 foot 2 and i think i would be healthier with a smaller size. if you could just give me an example of what i should eat or something i should do everyday i would really appreaciate it.
thanks!
At 15 our bodies are going through changes so the weight gain is normal. Also being 15, 5'2" and weighing 116 is a pretty good size. But if you arent happy with the way you look or if you just feel like you are out of shape then you could try working out and laying off of junk food. Although, since you are at this age and height you might not get back to that weight but you could change any baby fat that you have into muscle by working out and it would be okay because it would be toned. Good luck
I want to start babysitting to raise money but there aren't many people i know that need a babysitter. how should i get started?
Ive never really gone out and done babysitting as a job but my cousin lived with me once and she made little flyer things that she put around the neighborhood (Trees, mailboxes, etc.) She just put her number and said to contact her. She made the flyers to where you can pull off the number at the bottom. It worked... she got a lot of business. Good luck
okay my 3 best friends called me up one day and sayd i was talkin alot of crap when i asked who told them they said they couldent tell and when i asked what they said they said they couldent tell and they also said they couldent tell b.c " when we get in a fight i always find a way to get out of it" when thats not true i always get out of it b.c i tell them the truth even if its true... well they all hate me now and i dont know what to do!!
Well Ive been in the same situation with my friends before and it really sucked because these were the people that I always hung out with and then up and out of nowhere they went off for no reason. But through this experience I realized who my real friends were! People act stupid sometimes and do irrational things but in the end when you've had the chance to talk things through the ones that realize that they were wrong and want to work through ne problems you have are the ones that are true! Friendships arent perfect... its actually the fights that you can get through that are what make it stronger! So try and talk to them and I hope everything works out for you!