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why me??
okay my 3 best friends called me up one day and sayd i was talkin alot of crap when i asked who told them they said they couldent tell and when i asked what they said they said they couldent tell and they also said they couldent tell b.c " when we get in a fight i always find a way to get out of it" when thats not true i always get out of it b.c i tell them the truth even if its true... well they all hate me now and i dont know what to do!!
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Tell them you would really like to know what you did wrong! And that you wanna fully understand it.. and that if you knew what you did you could clear it up, and that obviously someone started a rumor on something you didnt do and you really wanan talk about it.. cuz you are getting hurt by all this stuff...Hope this works!
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Well Ive been in the same situation with my friends before and it really sucked because these were the people that I always hung out with and then up and out of nowhere they went off for no reason. But through this experience I realized who my real friends were! People act stupid sometimes and do irrational things but in the end when you've had the chance to talk things through the ones that realize that they were wrong and want to work through ne problems you have are the ones that are true! Friendships arent perfect... its actually the fights that you can get through that are what make it stronger! So try and talk to them and I hope everything works out for you!
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It seems like you haven't said anything bad about them, I don't understand why they can't tell you who said that, I think it's ridiculous and totally gay.
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okay fuck them bitches. they are not real friend sif they are gonna jufge you like that and say that you always end up getting out of shit? what is that supposed to mean? that they DONT want you to get out of it. Like you shouldn't defend yourself or something? and then they wanna go and beat around the bush and be like ph we cant tell you wo told us or what you said. what the hell did they call you complaining for if they werent even gonna tell you what you supposedly did. sounds to me like they just wanted to be 3 little bitches and start with you for nothing. if i were you, i would say fuck them and go find some friends who dont act like stupid ass little girls.
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Ditch them, because if they were your real friends than they would know that you didn't and if they can't trust you, why are they your bestfriends? Hopethis helped!! Latas!
.::Chelsea::.
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Well, honestly, it sounds like if they can't tell you who told them and what not maybe it's not true and they are just being jerks. I wouldn't put up with that at all! If they want to play immature games with you then I don't think you need them. I know they are your best friends and it would be hard to get rid of them but let them come to you to be a friend. If you keep going to them then they are just going to walk all over you so I say just ignore them and when they are done playing their games then they will come around. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal
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