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me and my boyfriend have been together fro a while now. we had our first fight the other day... i was so mad at him and didn't want to talk to him, but he kept trying to talk 2 me trying to make things better again. well i was extremely mad at him, but all i wanted wat him to hold me and not let me go. anyways is there something wrong with me... i mean because i was so mad at him but didn't want to be away from him. is that odd? thanks in advance
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Fights in a relationship are normal... they are actually what makes it stronger! I mean, if you can get past the problems then you can make it shows you can make it through so much! You were mad at him for whatever reason your fight was about but that doesnt mean you dont still care about him and want to be with him! Nothing is wrong with you at all! I have been with guys and i'd get soooooo mad at them, but id still wanna hug em and kiss em even tho they annoyed the hell out of me! Yall should talk thru w/e it is that is goin on and then everything can be great again! Good Luck
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No it's not. Relationships are like that. And in order to grow, and make them better, you have to slosh through the mud. As far as I see it, you didn't want him to be away from you because you wanted to know that he still cared about you, and he'd go after you. You wanted to make sure that even though you're throwing this huge tantrum (which was probably derserved) he would be there for you, he'd apologize. And you both would move on. You didn't want him to run away because you were mad. You wanted him to be with you (I know this is repetitive, but it's making sense in my head (and hopefully yours) so just go with it) When you're mad and sad and angry you want someone to hold you, stroke your hair and tell you "this to shall pass." It's an instinct. Don't worry. It's perfectly natural.
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Anger is a tricky business. Luckily, it usually doesn't stick around to long. You were probably already getting over it by the time you wanted to be with him again. Don't let it bug you, you'll recover.
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